I would appreciate all genuine, honest advice. My ex broke up with me we have children together and I was devastated . After about 6 months of on/ off arguing we have been getting on and have agreed to be friends. We talk on the phone and although we have children when he calls it is very often just to talk to me! He asks about my life and what I am doing. I did in the past tell him I wanted him back and o still loved him to which he has said ‘regardless he will always love me ‘ he has also said he won’t rule out us getting back together but this was a little while ago now about 3 months back. He has brought me gifts and commented on my pics at how nice I look. I often catching him looking at me when he drops the children off. We have had some deep convo’s over text’s and I said I was glad I have him in my life he replied that he Was ‘ very glad to have me’ IM SO CONFUSED!!!! I went out and he asked how it was I told him he told me he hasn’t been out in a while so I sent a msg later on saying he should perhaps come out with me and I got no reply. Im so gutted. There are some signs he wants to be with me but he blows and and cold. He does have a girlfriend- I’m not sure of the set up but he has indicated that it is more platonic but I could wrong! He is going to by me a car ‘ for the children’ but I just think well why , you are not with me- am I looking to far into this.....is he doing for the children or is it for my sake? ARRRRRGH!!!!! The compliments, the gifts, the jokes, the many phone calls a day.... But then he dos’nt reply to my proposal of perhaps having some time together. pleeeeeeeease help me here.
So... what do you think? Please leave me a comment or give me a .