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Here it goes. I was with my ex for 4 years. everything went real well with our relationship. We had our ups and downs, but got through everything. thats what made us one unique couple. well as she slowly graudated from high school things kind of started going down hill from there. im currently 20 and shes 18. we both found jobs during the summer and things seriously started to get twisted. you can she started to do her own thing with her "bestfriend" and i did my thing during the summer. well during the month of june she meet this 24 year old dude through her bestfriend. supposedly they we're real good friends. well summer progress, things started getting shaky with us. i started to get a little over protective cause she started talking to this guy almost on a regular basis. dude started telling her about his problems with his girl and she slowly shared about our problems with him.
the month of august was nothing but pure hell. nothing but drama. went on a small break, but she ended up realizing she couldn't leave me. we work things out from there. then she started college and basically i tried to save our relationship from falling apart again. i just started to feel something was going on between her and this guy. i confronted her about and she said it was nothing, it was nothing but being friends. September rolls around, and basically it was falling apart. got into a fight and she said she just wanted to end it. then the following day she asked to put things on "hold" for her to realize things. i ended up driving to this guys house ended finding out she was there. i basically ended up telling her parents and letting them know what was going on with us. (i have a very close relationship with her parents) basically i didn't want to lie to them about what was going on with us. same for my parents. we talked and she basically said she just wants to put things on hold for now....
from there during the month of october. we really didn't keep in contact as much, little phone calls here and there. then it just stop. well i ended up talking to my best friend recently (the one who hooked us up together) and found out some news. he basically spoke to her on the phone and just interrogated..found out during the summer that guy was trying to get with her while we're together. he knew and still didn't care. kind of low. he basically sent flowers and writing letters to her. kind of crap is that? 24 year old invading into a younger couples relationship. and he just asked question like, "do you miss him?" and basically she says she doesn't, but still thinks about me. he basically felt she just didn't want to express what she really feels cause i'll find out.. don't know...well one of my other friends heard that they're together now. don't know if its true..from what people told me its just infatuation and it isn't going to last. and i should worry..basically hes out to get some and bounce. out for the rebound you can say. dude is very slick with the whole lying skeem. telling her that quote "every girl i've been with, i've had a 2-3 year relationship with them, and they all cheated on me.." but yet while he was trying to invade my relationship he already had a girl. and sadly she believe. i guess she's nieve to the whole thing? basically everyone that supports us, my parents, friends, family, think its just a fling, and she'll realize what she's losing. basically she'll regret it and at the same time it'll karma on her.
my questions is, should i just move on already? 4+ years down the toilet like that? i mean there was really no closer with us. it was just left hanging. i mean i still love her and still have hope for us...her family, my family, still believe it'll happen. but at the same time i really don't wanna involve myself with this drama..advise is heavily recommended.
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