Am I over reacting?

I am 25 and my boyfriend is 22. We have been together for almost 2years now. My problem is this, We went out to a dance club last night with some friends, everything was going good until the end of the night when I decided to go to the ladies room. When I came out he had a good looking female sitting with her arm around the back of his neck, which I know that part of that is so that she can hear what he is saying as it is very loud in there. I just sat down and pretended nothing was wrong. He continued to talk with her until the babysitter called and the rest of us got up to leave. He never introduced me. When I asled him about it he said that she was an old classmate and that he was only thinking about catching up. The way I look at it is, isn't your girlfriend that you have been with for almost 2 years a big part of catching up? He said that this is the reason he hates going out to the bar with me. I get to jealous and over react when he is talking to other females, when all I am asking for is an introduction and acknowledgement to the girl he is talking to that he is taken. Am I asking to much?

Hi there SRKmama, welcome to the forum, I hope you will enjoy it

As to your 'predicament' - I think you are right. if you're his girlfriend you should be introduced. Full stop. No reason he is giving is qualified to undermine your right of being introduced to the lady in question. Nothing has to be 'going on' - but not being introduced is just insulting you. So, you tell him to either quit playing games about this subject (mind you NOT talking with other women, but you're not being introduced formally) or he's gotta take a hike.

(Anyway, that's how I would handle it )

Good luck!

I am 41 and from experience don't get angry or kick his ass....but just look at him and walk away take a cab or walk home no explanation needed. If it was a friend he would have introduced you as his girlfriend.

You are better than that. Move on.

SRKMamma, you just make sure the next bar you go to is packed with acqaintances of yours. when he gets to "catch up" you'll have a bunch of 'acquaintances' around you which he will disturb if he'd have the guts to bounce in...