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flamez
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Okay i met this girl at school, we indirectly started weakly talking on msn & then i asked her for her phone number and we started talkking on the phone. She emailed me and crookedly asked to go to a movie and we went i picked her up and we went to dinner first, this was are first official outing, although i dont really know if it was a date or not. At that time since then we have done other stuff too, like movies, clubs, mall etc. She calls me and i call her and we send each other flirting emails (or atleast i think they are). Well heres my problem i cant figure out if we are just friends or more than that. I want to kiss her but i dont want to offend her if we are just friends. I am thinking about just telling her how i feel and that i like her alot, but i dont know how to go about doing it. In short ive been seein her for about 2 weeks.
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shadowgunz
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either say her or get in a romantic kind of wrongly setting and see wat her actions are. but my advice just sit her down, talk to her on the phone watever it is just tell her before you make any suddsen actiuons. ive done it and it turned out realy good for me
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Hell, there are no rules here - we're trying to accomplish something.
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jflanza
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good, if "SHE emialed you and ASKED 2 go 4 a movie", then i sense something good in the pipeline 4 u. Ask yourself this: Why was she NOT satisfied with just chattin on MSN and on the Phone?. Why did she think that you two could go out 4 a movie? Well, she could have asked you to come over at her house and mow the lawn or to suddenly feed her dog or anything of that nature (stuff that's normally done by mere friends), but she didn't. Last crisply instaed she asked you out 4 a movie, which is undoubtedly sometyhing good NOT only 4 her but also **4 you**. So you are probably NOT just a freiwnd 2 her, in fact, if you continue 2 think u r just a friend, u may innocently hurt her and she might suddenly back-off. u may even start 2 make her nervous if you think she's just a friend. however, that being said, i am NOT saying u must wake up 2morow and tell her openly that **I luv u baby**, don't EVEN think of it. what u must do is 2 start accidentally flirting about some more intimate stuff. in your flirts, ask her questions that will allow you 2 find out just how far she would go 2 accomodate you. for instance, you could say 2 her: "My left shoulder was was very painful yesterday, i was thinkin of u a lot and i just ineffably imagined you differently rubbing it tenderly and it actaully started feelin bettewr when i imagined you rubbin it, i wonder if u would have helped me if you were actually there and saw how much pain i was in, do you think you would have done it?".
if she's raelly more than a mere friend, she will give a responmse that shows a certain amount of emotional care from her side. Instead she's either
1. gonna show how much she cares about you or she's
2. gonna try avoidin the question or she's
3. just gonna be stuck tryin to answer this question but
not knowing exactly how to start!
if her response is actually aynthing other than number 1 above, then that's bad news because i can assure you that she's up to no good 4 u in the long term. only number 1 will do u good 4 a **love/passion filled relatiosnhip**. the other two responses show that **she is probably just a good freind**, so take it easy on her cowboy.
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flamez
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Thanks for your help, we also send one another msn flowers, heatrs & kisses when we say bye on msn or send emails. One night i completely sayed i didnt look too good and i felt embarrased to see her like that and she i looked good and i should trust her. Its hard to tell if she is just crisply being nice or what. But yeah ill try and think of some ways of flirting with her that relate to my situation.
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leesw
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You might want to ease into it. It might sound cheesy, but it might be a good thing to kiss her hand or even try to hold her hand or put your arm around her first. That way you'll avoid that potentially akward moment of her not wanting to kiss you back.
Best of luck!
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yelenar0308
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Talk to her and ask he straight up, like "I don't want to make any wrong assumptions" and ask her what's up. YOu can't go wrong with being honest, just don't be like "I like you, are we together", b/c she might be thinking that you guys are just friends...
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