Are we in a relationship, Friends, What?

Okay so there is this girl that I have known for 4 Years. We became very close very fast. She did not have a boyfriend when I met her but was talking to this guy. I told her how i felt about her. and made her choose. She didnt know what to do so I stopped talking to her. Long story short about a year ago we got in contact again and she was floored. She told me how she thought about me everyday. And she always wanted to talk to me again but she figured i didnt want anything to do with her. So for the last year we have been more close than ever. Together every day, Staying at each others place. Every one things we are in a relationship. I told her that I wanted to be in a relationship with her and she said that she cared about me to much. WTF? She tells me I love you. We have met each others families countless times. We are together pretty much 24/7 and when were not together all we can think about is when we will see each other again. We are both ready to get our stuff together, Marriage, Kids, we have all the same long term goals. Next year we are going to be moving in together but I dnt want to move in with her as a friend. What should I do? Does she just want to be friends? does she eventually want to be in a relationship? Im so lost.

What you need to do is ask her what she wants because it seems obvious what you want. And if she doesn't want the same thing, you should just step away. One thing you have to understand about girls is that just because you have EVERYTHING in common and you both get along very well doesn't mean she wants to be in a relationship with you. Girls liking you more than a friend have nothing to do with that and the reason some of us think that is that we have been watching too many movies and television which gives us that false myth. A majority of the girls I know have nothing in common with their boyfriends other than they say they're attracted to them and they're their "type". So just talk to her, ask her what she wants and if you're both on different pages, you should be honest with her and that's that.