been dating a single mom (45) and it has been extremely, ext...

been dating a single mom (45) and it has been extremely, extremely passionate and we have been getting along great. she's going through a divorce and so am i. but she has been pulling back some. i asked her if something was the matter and she said she was feeling pressured. not by my making any demands, but that she felt she couldn't give me what i needed. we've spoken very, very little since this past friday. she tells me she doesn't want to date anyone, that she loves me and that she does not want to breakup. should i take her at her word?

Yes, take her at her word and give her some space for awhile. It's just stress, and she'll come around. Be patient.