Boyfriend Having A Party….and I Am Kept In The Dark.

Last night, I found out from a mutual friend that my boyfriend had planned a party at his house this upcoming weekend and already sent out all the invitations and didn’t tell me a single thing about it. I spent the entire day with him on Sat and I talked to him on the phone yesterday, and he didn’t mention a single thing about it. I know he just purchased new outdoor patio and he’s been cleaning the pool and his backyard, but he just told me these are things he always wanted to do but never had the time. Little did I know he was doing all those things to prepare for the BBQ party. I was extremely angry and I wanted to call him to confront him, but then I thought what’s the point? I agreed to the terms. He’s going to say “I already told you I need my space so why do I need to tell you everything?”

I just feel hurt. I’m more than willing to give him the space he needs and I have been fine pretending everything is fine and not bring up our relationship issues when we talk on the phone or see each other in person, but I feel that out of respect, he should’ve at least told me he planned a party. I had to find out from someone out that he had planned a party at his house and I haven’t even been invited. When does he plan on telling me or is he even planning on telling me? I am not even going to say anything to him. I love him, but I don’t know how much more I can be pushed. Is it wrong for me to be angry? I know I agreed to giving him his space, but shouldn’t he at least tell me about it if we are still together even if he doesn’t want me there?