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I need some advice on dealing wtih my boyfriend's ex-wife and son. my boyfriend and i are living together and his wife has custody of their 4 year old son, however, he is with us every day from 7:30am till 4-5pm and every other weekend. she constantly switches the schedule around and we have him 95% of the time. she lives two blocks away, way too close in my book. she is -constantly texting, calling and e-mailing my boyfriend several times a day (unless it is her free weekend and she is with her boyfriend). she has no regard for our private time, the little that we get. she only thinks about herself. i really think that it is totally unnecessary for her to be bugging us all the time. she wants to be friends with him.
my boyfriend feels really bad for his son, and gives in to his every whim. This weekend his son was supposed to be with his mom, and because he wanted to go swimming on Friday and they didn't get there, my boyfriend promised him that he would pick him up at his mom's on Saturday and take him.
I feel like I am being put on the back burner. HELP!
They also still talk about other things going on in their lives,such as work, etc. Is this normal? I would think he would only be talking to me about these things. Sometimes I think he talks to her about stuff that he doesn't discuss with me.
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