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Btac
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Posted 1 Year, 2 Months ago #1
I recently broke up with my girlfriend because she seemed very distant in our last meeting. We had been getting in arguements in which I was at fault. I was trying to discuss our relationship issues and she said she loved me but did not know why she was acting distant. I didnt accept that answer and broke it off. She has not called in days....will she call and talk about our issues or will she never call again?


fyi we dated for over a year in the past then broke up for 2 years then back together for just under a year...had some jealousy issues....i was trying to work them out with her but she seemed to be unable to communicate about them. I think this is what pushed her away. I can understand that and if she would have said thats why she was distant i would have accepted that and worked on it. However she said that she doesnt know...even when i brought up that i was wrong about those issues....it is really hurting and i want to call her...but i think she will think i am weak and lose interest...what should i do?
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Posted 1 Year, 2 Months ago #2
You said that she was distant, and yet you don't want to call because you think that you will seem "weak". If you also pushed her away, it's up to you if you want to pull her back in.
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tammy
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Posted 1 Year, 2 Months ago #3
I also do the keep quiet and keep it to yourself thing.
The reasom I do it is because when trying to discuss an issue with my husband leads into him raising his voice getting a little to close in my face, with the end result always being my feelings are wrong how dare you always with four letter words being called to me.

Think about how you address her relationship concerns with her, yhis might be the cause.
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