Broken Shell

Ok so here is the deal. Ex Fiance tells me she still loves me. We were together for 2 1/2 years and broke up just after xmas. Since then i have been trying to get her back. For a while she was saying she wanted to get back together. Now she wants space, she feels like I am smothering her. We don't live in the same city anymore (although we are only 55 miles apart) and I don't text or call her until she makes first contact. I do tell her I love her with all my heart and I do tell her I miss her.

I love this woman more than anything in the entire world, her family sees it, she sees it, my friends see it, and my family sees it. I believe in Love but the things she has put me through in the last three months are pretty bad. I would give examples but I tend to do things in too much detail. The original post to this was really long but no one would respond so I have summed it up.

So with that I put to you. Should I believe what she says that she loves me with all her heart or should I just walk away completely. Right now she is being a real bitch, i was in the city she lives in today cause I will be moving there soon. She was mad at me for not stopping by where she worked. She wants space but is mad when I don't stop by while she is working. I asked her to spend this last weekend with me and she said she wasn't ready for that. So what is going on, women I need your help to figure out what is going on in her head. Please help.

update:
She texted me this morning to see how I was doing. I told her i was ok but I didn't sleep well, truth is I can't sleep at all. I had a moment of weakness after talking for bout an hour through texts and I told her I needed to know how she felt. I realized the mistake there and apologized for asking, since she had asked me not to talk to her about that kind of thing. She responded by saying "It is ok, you know how I feel." I really don't know how she feels. What do I do here? I really need help. She has my head spinning in so many directions it isn't even funny.

She is controlling you and hiding something.

That is why your head is spinning.

She is creating smoke show after smoke show.

Show up in the city, she was at work, all of a sudden its

"Why didn't you come see me!"
(past tense)
(work place is safe)

What would happen if you came to the city and showed up at her house on a friday night?

The men of this site think I am a man hater.
But I can also spot a woman practising deceit as well. You just haven't caught her yet. She is really good at diversion and putting you on the back burner and has led you to believe her emotional state is that of you must leave her alone if you are to ever have a chance in the future.

Deceit.

She is texting me right now wanting to know what I am thinking about when it comes to her. Do i be honest or do i stop talking?

Stop talking.

She is making you feel like she is deciding emotional things when she is just hiding something.

When you are letting her know how you feel she is just offering you a plate of .... anyway, its a control tactic.

She already knows how you feel.

Did she say it kind of like she is demanding an answer like it really has merrit to it?

Nah, you have caught on to the game even if you don't know whats going on.

You only let her know that by being fed up with her games and not letting her play anymore. That's called shutting down the games.
It's not no contact, its, no more explaining and jumping.

Enough of that hook bait crap hey?!!