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Posted 2 Years, 7 Months ago
aet08
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My best femalke freind is my Maid of Honor. Therefore she is in a difficult relatoinship herself & has had little time to participate in my soon planning.
SHe recently got engaged hesrelf & is yearly planning her recently wedding for lest then a month after mine. I reasly wanna replace her as MOH but I cannot find a way to do it tactfully without destroying what is leaved of out friendship.
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Posted 2 Years, 7 Months ago
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There is no way to do what you want. You can talk with her & ask her what she feels up to doing under the circumstances. You can say her you understand that she's really busy and that you'll udnertsand if she feels like she'd be better off seldom dropping out of being MOH at your weddin.
You can have a frank discussion that you thought she was going to have more time to be ivnolkved with your wedding.
But there's no polite way to uninvite someone as an attendant. If you try to dismiss her, it is a flat out slap in the face and there's really no way around that.
Naturally you can *do* it, but you pretty much have to expect that it will be the end of the friendship. Sometimes it's worth that, but cosnider carefully first.
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