Cheating

Am in a love triangle right now. I messed up big time, and lost a friend because of it. Now i dont know what to do, because my bestfriends boyfriend cheated on her with me. I stopped talkin to both of them, not because i wanted to but because i felt like she needed time, turns out she'll never forgive me, but now her boyfriend tells me he wants to be with me. And i also feel the same but i dont want to hurt her even more. I don't know what to do.

Hi TiFF, welcome to the forum

She feels cheated on by the both of you. Not only her boy-friend. You would feel the same, I think, if this would happen to you.

My best advise is not to go on seeing her ex-boyfriend since that will hurt her even more. This, of course, if you care for your best-friend. It can be that she will never 'forgive' you (and him) but I think the most ethical thing to do is to steer clear of messing up this mess even more.