True Stories of Cheating Wives
We always hear about men straying and having affairs. But we also know women can be capable of such things.
There are varied reasons why wives cheat on their husbands. Most often, unfaithfulness of wives stem from loneliness and boredom. Sometimes a liaison with another man is committed out of revenge for their cheating husbands. Here are some true stories:
Cheating Wife 1
A man notices his wife of twenty three years changes from being computer illiterate to an Internet addict in a matter of six months. His trust for her made him ignore the long hours she spent online with her "new friends" and even sending them gifts. Later on, her time for their children suffered too. It turned out she became obsessed with other men, even male ***** who solicit online.
His wife had become a totally different woman, influenced by the dark and perverted world she had embraced. She left her husband and family but not before doing as much damage as she can, making hideous accusations and horrid remarks to other family members.
Cheating Wife 2
Another man found out about his wife's three month long affair. She had slept with her lover several times over this period. Only after being confronted and being face-to-face with evidence did she confess. The husband was naturally devastated but forgave her so they can have a second chance and begin to rebuild their broken relationship. The wife was truly repentant and did her best to make up to her husband.
However, the pain remained inside. The husband did not know how to cope. He wondered if he should know more about the affair in order to get over it. The past just seemed to catch up and hurt him time and again. He forgave but could not forget.
Cheating Wife 3
Who could understand the madness that drove a man to kill his three year old daughter? A subsequent trial revealed the man had been depressed for months after finding out his wife was having an affair. He drugged his daughter with anti-depressant medication he had been taking and killed her with chloroform two days before her fourth birthday. He said he dealt with the deceit and wanted his wife to deal with the consequences for the rest of her life.
Cheating Wife 4
A couple got married after a year of meeting and falling in love while attending university. They later moved to Italy and back to Britain. A year after that, the wife filed for divorce. Minutes after that, he used a can of gasoline to set their home on fire.
But before the divorce papers, there were already marital troubles. Bad enough for the man to threaten his wife of burning their Italian flat so they can be together forever. Among his accusations were his suspicion of his wife having an affair.
Cheating Wife 4
One woman admitted to cheating on her husband everytime she got angry with him. She had one-night stands with different men which left her unfulfilled. She wanted to get back on her husband through her infidelity but ended up destroying herself.
Some cheating wives blame their husbands for driving them to enter into affairs. But for marriage to really work, it takes commitment and effort from both husband and wife. Cheating on your spouse is a selfish act.
True Stories of Cheating Wives
YUP....my wife cheated on me in 2003 with the brother of my brothers ex-wife!!!!At the time my wife was 31 and the guy was 21. He is married with 4 kids and he has an additional 5 kids with 5 different women and one of those women is my wife.THATS RIGHT!!!!MY WIFE GOT PREGNANT BY HIM!!!! We have 2 daughters of our own and she had a son by him!! What sucks is this was his first born male child so they decided to name it after him...JODY JR.--------Jr. is now 8 years old and looks just like his father!!!He's a good kid partly because the father rarely comes around so he's learning our values. I guess i got a son afterall even after I got fixed!!!!My wife and I had to go through a lot to repair our marriage. I guess the good thing that came out was the truth....that was not the only time she cheated.....she had ben in a continuous pattern of cheating with some of my friends, my and her coworkers, and even the neighbor acrooss the street. It sucked because i had all these questions and hurt, and hearing the answers made it worse. From the smallest detail like were u on top? Oral? Condoms? Was he better? But we healed and I forgave her and trust her again
I lift my hat to you, commendable it is. There must have been something of a deeper level than the physical that would cause you to stay with her, which is missing from most relationships.
We all cheat, at some point or the other, but some take it to another level, some go all the way. It hurts to be cheated on, but it takes a real person with love and the disciplin to rise above the emotions and forgive.
I lift my cap to you.
She was? Oh my, how are you handling that?
Yes know the feeling here guys.
I have recently been starting a business, a lot of our relative money and all of my time spent on it. Working away for upto 10 days at a time and knocking in 80 hour weeks.
It was only temp for 2-3months max to start up anyhow. But anything i asked for in terms of help or support was a problem. Told her that we just finishing up and could spend lots of time together again and being as tender as possible when i was back. Noticed she had no sex drive or interest in me at all and was arrogant at times. Got suspect when she started trimming pubic regions and all that jazz...then a few cases of urinary tract infection. Noted a few guys on facebook profile that set alarm bells of, dont know why, just did.
But i actually never even really suspected, i took the support and friendship as a dead cert as my wife always had from me. I take my vow's very seriously in that respect.
Then this weekend i am lying in bed two weeks after saying we are finished up with the long hours and being away....so look forward to the time together etc not suspecting a thing at all, i mean why would you (doh slaps head).
12.30 at night my mobile rings. "is that steven, can i speak to em"
"err wtf about my friend "
"well its urgent i am a work friend".
My wife goes on and is very ratty and aggressive with the guy...i instantly piece a jigsaw together as above, takes me like 3 seconds. Looking around my room i see a travel bag with spicy underwear everything fits like a glove.
He phones 3 more times and my wife says it is about work.
So i take phone back and there is a text message that comes within a minute. Nothing prepares for the sms message,m it was that bad i thought he was just a crack pot.
In hindsight and short this guy is angry because she has cheated on him with another man....and possibly two ....both behind my back. Several other flirting sessions with men online and a few dates.
My wifes last date had been the friday, this is the saturday. We had been to the same cinema screening that night as she had with this other guy the night before, nice touch i thought.
On the wednesday they had been out, she stayed at his and on the friday. She had lost a smart phone on the wednesday..told me at nigh-class. Again nonsense. It was lost when at a bar from her bag. She tells me later that a 10 hour period she has complete amnesia and remembers a powder in her drink at the bottom.
The chap did whatever he wanted with her on the night, which on a technicality is rape. Stole the phone gaining full profile email access and found about the other longer term affairs. And got offended.
Then a crisis of morality he thought he should tell me about it. The text stated that he did not believe the nonsense that she was coming out with and reading emails and texts/voicemail from her husband...he is a gent (thanks buddy!). Then continues to tell on her being ridden like a bike. Giving me details etc.
My wife claimed a semi plausible excuse of lunatic stalker.Hindsight he did become a lunatic stalker.
I left it until around 6 the next morning told her to take all passwords of emails and stand back. What i found was truly shocking. She had been sleeping with other men, thought that one loved her and may be a good catch, she had slept with him like 10 times over 10 weeks.
All of that made me shake with adrenalin. frankly how i did not beat her to within an inch i will never know. But i did not lay a hand on her. Remaining fairly moderate.
Got the full truth which is as above, met a few guys on date site, non of which married non dating etc...my thoughts yea whats wrong with them Sparky
Asked for the detail, knowing it would hurt more, and flew into an absolute rage.A few hours were blank in my life at that point, but i only found two of the culprits, the one apologized properly. The other was rude and condescending. The excuse of a man thought at this point that he was still in the running for taking my wife away. I am not ashamed to admit that the only answer was a violent but last resort. Luckily for me my life was not destroyed by my actions that day, but i could seriously have killed without thought of consequence.
The 3rd man that i want to see i can not get near. Again weak and can not face his actions and apologize or take the consequence of not. He is the long term scumbag. I learnt today that he has been diagnosed with very bad health. Which i would not wish upon any man....if they had seen decent to apologize.
My wife for her part had been going through a bad time with a close family member passing etc. She is attractive and looks very young, much younger than the 33 that she is. It came easily and i am pretty sure she was very unbalanced during this time.
All of the physical contact, intercourse and whatever else annoys me. But i am thankful that she is safe and ok. It was that betrayal of our friendship on a much deeper level that hurts badly. It was her doing entirely, no rational or reasonable excuse. She is treated well, costs me a lot of money and loved and cared for, supported comforted....when i am there.
The conversations between these people and my wife about me, mean that i will never forget. A marriage destroyed. I love her dearly and i know that feeling is returned.
I always imagined that the sexual aspect would bother me. But i figured through this that i am strong minded and confident, as a result i have no issue with competition or rivalry. These jokers could not please her anyway with low libido and physical stature despite good looks etc. But it is the thing that i can do nothing about and that is the undignified feeding to weak people with no moral stature of all i have given emotionally over 10 years that will always be raw and likely to explode upon any future incident or past, that affects me.
It is simply not fair to place the person that you love or that loves you, even if this has diminished, into such a situation.
The full extent of this is unfolding currently. So far due to the co worker involvement and email use at work, my wife has been sacked from a position she worked hard to get and loved as it gave her confidence and security. The main reason that she claims to have committed such levels of adultery are
1. get more confident
2. i was away
3. not enough i love you's in the day.
All of what she sought from these men has been reversed and left her in a hole that she could not climb out of.
For my part i believe in life long friendship. It wont be the same again. But life is to short as it is. I have forgiven with out a second thought, but the annoying irony is that after these vultures have finished circling, and Now my wife has stepped back and realized how bloody absurd the situation is and can see that it was a good shag they were looking for and not love or to act as therapists to """lonely married women"""" it is me that has to carry the can and be strong again and yet build esteem up in her.
I guess my other lessons focused around the level of sneaky deceit and planning. Even more around the fact of callousness and lack of compassion. Photos sent to me when away....in the email box to other men were labeled "an hour before i get it" My wife would text me that she was horny, WHILST with another man!
I guess people can either be trusted or not. No in-between. Just why is it me with this extreme example.
Another lesson is that some men are plane stupid. If you are with a married woman, when the partner finds out the emotions can completely take over. It is for that reason that people should just ask for the divorce, council-ling, talk and not do this.
I shall take it day by day and see where i end up.
Thanks that helped, hope others can relate in the future.
i had this terrible experience also, i work all the time sometime i am gone six weeks, and she does not want sex,one evening i came home unexpectedly from out of town,she was not home, i went to the washroom to wash and when i was about to put my towel in the laundry basket her panties were in full view, i noticed the crotch area soaked,so i turn it inside out,i was shocked,there were globs of thick ***** on it,we live alone and shes attractive. i confronted her, she admitted having sex with my best friend, i left her . now she calls me but thats her mistake. i work hard to make a living , well this how i found out. marry the older mature ones who respect you.
Interesting weekend, that was really your story and it must have taken much concentration to express it on paper. Let me hope that whatever the solution you find, is the right one.
I just want to say that there is not excuse for cheating, it is just that. People cheat for all type of reasons, but we cannot take responsibility for it, even if they say we contributed by not being there enough. No one can make you do anything you should not do.
Break it up if you do not want it and move on. Not sure how you are going to continue in a relationship with her, but where there is a will there is a way. I will forgive any violation of my relationship, but if the person is not repentant, then I must move on.
thanks for the kind words
Just checked back after a fair few months.
I agree 100% with your viewpoint.
My wife did not repent.....So she had to go. I would have forgiven, genuinely no problem long term, but to me she just was not sorry.
So a divorce was commenced, and looking back it was the correct action.
A few months later and i have started to see another lady. Life is on the up and i am very glad not to have been left with any issue of insecurity or mistrust.
Yeah!!! A positive response, and I will continue to say it, if we trust the world in rewarding us for waiting, making decisions because of our principle, then we are good and we will find love in the world.
I agree that cheaters, BOTH MALE AND FEMALE....will cause immense pain and trauma. Period.
I STRONGLY disagree with how Wife #3 and Wife #4 are portrayed here.
So it's the wife's fault that the husband killed his daughter?
I DON'T THINK SO!
As with every relationship, there are TWO sides to every story. That is a FACT. Sure, let's have a thread that deals with bashing all the cheating wives. Just like we can a thread that bashes all the cheating husbands. But use common sense folks. If a person is cheating on their spouse, the proper thing to do if a person was feeling that incredible amount of anxiety, would be get help immediately before something spiteful is done under "temporary insanity", or whatever. If the person went nuts and caused major damage as this post suggests, the person obviously had uncontrollable mental issues before the infidelity occurred, or is using the issue as an excuse for acting incomprehensible.
I'm shaking my head here.
Let's stop an ask another question here, forgive me for straying from the topic but my question is this: To everyone on here that has been cheated on or is now dating someone that has been through it, arent the effects always the same? It turns us into untrusting individuals, suspcicious even of new people coming into our lives. Cheating no matter the reason is always wrong. It doesnt teach anyone a lesson, it doesnt fix your problems, and it sure isnt the solution for when the going gets tough. Blaming either sex for what one person or it some cases sadly, more then one have done. Regardless of what you want to believe, there are good men and women out there. Sometimes they are just hard to find.