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Posted 4 Months, 3 Weeks ago
vlee
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So if you had read my earlier post about dating you might have seen that I needed advice for my housemate on dating.

anyway, she went out with the same guy last night and saw a side of him she had never seen before. He got aggressive, seemed as though he had a temper, and almost got into a fight with one of our guy friends (she didnt know who started it though).

I wasn't there so I dont know all of the details.

Should she just walk away now?
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Posted 4 Months, 3 Weeks ago
ayngel
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Hmmm better first find out who started the aggression. Sometimes one gets drawn into it against one's will.
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Posted 4 Months, 3 Weeks ago
brielle
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seeing as how it was a "side she's never seen" I think she may need to look more into it. If they hadn't been dating long this is not a good sign, as the first month guys are usually on their best behavior. The easiest way I know of to tell if a guy has aggressive behavior is to see how he reacts when they all go out, and the opposite sex is around. Some men take their jealousy out in an aggressive, unfriendly way manner. Be on the look out for her definitely, attraction can lead to her looking over some very serious problems he may have.
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Posted 4 Months, 3 Weeks ago
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yeah i totally agree...i think he must have been getting jealous and decided to act in an agggressive manner. i think she is going on a date with him tonight so we shall see how it goes...but also i think it is just one-on-one. she should probabaly bring him around our friends more to see if that night was just a fluke, or he actually in fact has aggression problems
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