dating a guy with a girlfriend

help me please. im dating a guy in a realtionships. they've been together for 4 mos and right now the girl is out of the country. he keeps on telling me that he wanted to see me and that he loves me over his girl. do you think he is really serious saying that? or he just misses his girl and wants company? please advice. should i pursue him? should i let go? or it could be us?.

Hard to say but you have to remember a guy who goes behind his own girlfriend is most likely going to do that again.. possibly to you. It's your decision but personally I don't date people who aren't honest with their partners on their current relationships.

If you were his current girlfriend out of the country, how would you feel?

Would you want a guy like that in your life?

Think about it.

MindyMorgan, you took the words out of my mouth. LOL

I know how you feel honey! It's hard to believe him when you know he has a gf and he tells you those things. I found out the hard way and am still trying to get over him! Good Luck!

*Red Flag* when you are talking to someone who is cheating on his gf(without her knowledge that is), it's a bad sign. But if you like the drama, go for it. Shoot for the stars.

thanks. i've actually done the right thing. i told him to stop and that we could be casual friend. guess what he said? he said the we could be secret lovers. thats unfair for me and i think also for the girl right?, i dont want that kind of disposition in one's life. i know i deserve better than that

The guy's a player. Some girls like these kind of guys but it doesn't sound like that's you.

hi

You seriously need to think about that one, if he is doing that to the girl out of the country. Dont you think you should think this over and possibly say he might do this to me. Or he already done it.