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Thank you -- Everyone... for your advice... I need to have my profile deleted.

Post edited by: brackjj1181, at: 2008/06/18 22:17

Hi and welcome to the forum, brackjj1181

So what do I do?

Be patient.

you cannot force her feelings. Just let her know you love her and will be there for her. (if you do - of course)

there really isn't much else you can do...

be a stable - reliable 'friend', and give her time to decide.

This is a very popular situation. It sounds as though you need to re-evaluate what has happened. I see that you are saying you love her but do you think you are tricking yourself into believing that because you are lonely? Usually the challenge of another man in a girl's life creates feelings in another that they think is love. If this was a true love you would have recognized it long, long ago. If you had truly loved her you would have not used her in the way that you did for so long. It is kind of you to set her free after you came to the realization that you didn't really want her. Also, if it were true love, she would not be having the desire to explore the new relationship.
As we go through changes in our lives, we need to understand that old patterns may not fit the present. People move on and we have to accept that we cannot be a part of their lives just because we are lonely.
I notice that this was posted some time ago and my guess is that shortly after you may have met someone who made you feel true love for the first time. We have to be careful with the word "love". It is something sacred. If you had truly loved this girl, you would have known it a long while back. She has moved on and it seems as though she is in a healthy place. It is good that you accept and understand that.
Remember that when one door closes, it just means another is opening. Next time you find someone you love, remember this experience and hold onto that love so that you may not feel this pain again.

Hello Lexsoph, welcome to the forum

Great advice! Thanks - I hope Brackjj will still read this