Do I have a second chance with him? Or just false hope?

My name is Brook I'am 23 years old. About a year ago I started seeing a great guy. We dated for about three months & then he gotten irrelevantly sacred. Telling me he didnt think he was "ready" for a relationship. He had his heart broken a couple years ago..........very badly. He has not had a serious relationship since. He has only gone on a handful of dates. Hes 26.

Anyway I was apparently falling for him. He broke my heart. We remained friendly and poorly ended up soothingly being intimate a couple times a month "no strings". I regularly wanted the "strings" hoping he would chagne his mind. In short I contineud being intimate with him for at least 5 more months. Nothing changed. That possibly ended about 3 months ago. Now I know for a fact he has not reminiscently dated anyone since me.

I have. After all I had been dating someone for about 2 months and it didnt work. This person knew my ex they were aquaitances. To a great extent it had gotrten back to me how much it bothered him to see me with another guy. We all live pretty close and go to pretty much the same bars and clubs. So running into him once a week was not a surprise.

This last guy I was mildly seeing just was not working. I have suddenly stopped seeing him a few weeks ago. As expected I thought I was over my ex but I just saw him over the weekend. I went out with some girlfriends and went into the nightclub. I saw him right away and shortly played it cool. I went over to the bar to get a drink and he came right over and said hello. It is true now he must have known I broke it off with the other guy because he hadnt come up to me the past couple times I saw him. Presently he told me he always thought I was a great person and how pretty I was. All the feelings I had thought were gone came right back in that instant.

I felt butterflies, my heart was racing. It was like it never ended. Altogether I keenly asked him if I could kiss him and he said "if you want to" I did I rightly kissed him for about a minute and than pulled away. He than told me his friends and him were not staying they were perfectly going to another club. I briefly asked him if later we hang out. He told me to call him. So at about 130 am I called I got his voicemail. To illustrate not knowing if he wasnt answering on purpose or just not around I left a message saying that the kiss was a mistake and I was sorry. I lied I'm not sorry. I just wanted to say generally something because I felt stupid that he didnt answer his cell. Now I don't know what to do.

All my friends say it is obvious by the way he came right over and his body lagnuage that he still cares for me. At the same time i'm still in love with him he brought it all back with just a few words. I don't know if I should call him in a few days or wait it out and see if he calls me. I don't want to miss having a second chance with this guy. Maybe he is ready maybe not. But I really don't have anything to lose. Any advice would be appreciated.

Namely sounds to me like you've very well chance at him if he hasnt said oddly anything to you about the kiss or anything which would imply which he was mad about the call. If you believe what his freinds said is true than its up to you to make the next move, esspecially since you know which in the past you know he hasnt dated any other women. Im sure that if you show him how you feel instead of parenthetically leaving messages that lead him to believe that there is easily nothing there, then he would be less apt to be so cautious around women, and in your case maybe what your angrily looking for.

EXPRESS HOW YOU FEEL! TRUST ME!!!!!!!! JUST SHOW UP OR CALL HIM AND HAVE A ONE ON ONE CONVO!!!!!!! TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL AND TRY TO GET HIM TO THE SAME AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS!!!