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Martin
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Posted 1 Year, 2 Months ago Linkback
My exgirlfriend broke up with me 3 months ago, then she start calling and after all she came back, then 1 month ago she told me she can not see me or talk to me anymore, because her parents. Three weeks ago she bumped to me at the gym on her way out, we have very short talk, because she was on her way to work. Then she called me one hour later and said, I am sorry I have to cut you off, but I was late for work, then the BS I want to hug you, I miss you etc.Then her phone ring at work, and she had to go. Then she called me after work and we talk for 45 min. She told me she wants to be single, she is very busy with her life, too much work etc. Also she said that I can call her any time I need. I have not talked to her this past two weeks,I saw her leaving thy gym two times, past 6 days. We join the same gym for two years, and after the first break up I told herI will be going to the gym in different time. She is there from 6 am to 7:20 am because she has to be at work 7:30 and I coming in 7:25 am to 8:30, I have to be at wotk 8:45. Now,I went to see psychic, card reader and palm reader, all three of them told me that she will come back. Now should I hope for her to come back or not.
Any ideas please.
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Posted 1 Year, 2 Months ago Linkback
Why did she break up with you?
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martin
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Posted 1 Year, 2 Months ago Linkback
trust issue from my part
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Explain how they got in the way. Are they still there?
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Posted 1 Year, 2 Months ago Linkback
Listen, try to search any article on how to get back together with your ex. I can bet you anything they will ask you to be 'unavailable' for a while. Don't be there all the time, don't "accidentally" bump into her. You know you will see her at the gym, stop going there. Stop talking for 45 minutes. Stop being the Mr.Waiting for you.

If she contacted you, be the first to end the conversation. Make up some excuse. If she text you, don't reply right away. Wait a day or several hours. Don't make it look like you are waiting for her.

No matter how she said about being single and all, everyone needs company. Once she notice you are slipping away, she will find you - that is if she wants you.

All the best.
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mike
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Posted 1 Year, 2 Months ago Linkback
Thank you for your replay.
Well, last time we talk on the phone was 10 days ago, she did not contacted me from that date. So looks like she have moved on, I am not going to call her at all.
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mike
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Posted 1 Year, 2 Months ago Linkback
yes, she is living with her parents.
They dont like me from day one.
When me and my ex meet, I was still married and I told her on our first date what is my situation. I was in process geting divorce.
She asked to tell her parents that I am single, I guess she was dating a cop who was married with two kids and he left his wife for her, and then he went back to his wife.
Then her parents find it out I was still married so they told her to leave me or move out they house for good, and choose me over them, so from that date they hate me for that.
But after 3 months they reunited and everything was ok, but me I was always the bad person.
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Posted 1 Year, 2 Months ago Linkback
10 days? Its still too soon to tell. My ex contacted me after 2 months.

Imagine what I had to put up with. Anyway, be patient.

Regarding the family issues, you can always turn that table around. Noone will start liking you if you don't do/be what they like right? Know how to tackle their heart. Explaining things or showing how great your love is and respecting them at the same time usually works.
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mike
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Posted 1 Year, 2 Months ago Linkback
Did she came back after the two months?
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Actually, heres how it is. She texted me after 2 months of total isolation. We didn't meet for 2 months. Out of the blue she started to text me like nothing happened. I reacted with emotions and told her how badly she hurt me, and how I was for the last 2 months. I didn't hate her, but till this very day she stopped texting me.

I'm not hoping for anything to happen, If she thinks I hate her and shes not gonna do anything, so be it. I've done my part of the chase. You never know if someone truly care for you if you were doing all the chases and work.

So to answer your question, no I don't think she did nor will.
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mike
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Posted 1 Year, 2 Months ago Linkback
Sorry to hear it. My ex after the first break up, was texting me and calling me every day, I have never contacted her first, I never asked her to meet up or so. And now again, she broke up with me again and I am not going to contact her at all. It has been 3 weeks now from last phone call from her.Just like you said, good luck to them, we cant wait forever.Life is to short to waste for one person. Let someone else to deal with that....
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mike
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Posted 1 Year, 2 Months ago Linkback
Her dad meet me first at work when he bring his vehicle for service, we chat for while and had good talk. Then he came back 3 days later with her to pick up his truck, thats how all started. She gave me her number and that weekend we went out for drink.
I told her that I like her very much, but there is small problem, I am still married but already filed for devorce. She was ok with that, but she asked me not to tell her parents about my situation, she had date it merried guy before me and it end it up very bad. For three months everything was going well, until thanksgiving day. She asked me to stay with her parents for dinner 3pm I told her I will be there at 3.
At 12 noon she called my cell 5 times, (my phone was in the car) she couldnt get touch with me so she get in her car, and came over my house. I told my wife I will not be with her and her parents and going to stay with my friends. she was ok with that. Then my ex showed up at my door and start fighting with my mother in law and my wife. It was mess. I got in the car and drove away with my girlfriend. Some how my wife already know about my girl and she end it up calling my girl parents and told them that I am married and all the BS. They kick my girl out of they house, so me and her end it up in hotel for 10 days, before I got apartment. From that day, they dont think I am good for her, even after 4 months we all start talk and be come friends.
I also repair her father whole roof for free, he offered me 1800$ and I told him to give to her to pay her school loan. He said good idea thank you. No metter what I did for them, I am still bad person..
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