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yahsmith19
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Posts: 2
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We have been cool lately, went to the movies, went shopping with her, she even spent the night over in my daughters room. We speak openly, now I know that she has someone interested in her that she might be interested in who is younger than her. We have been broken up foir 4months now and she stated that our relationship of 10 years was a real good relationship that started out with love and became a deep friendship which she does not know if that is where relationships is suppose to go. She also said that she cannot connect with anyone on a deeper level than she does with me. But at the same time even though we have good communication there is no immediate sign of us getting together. she comments on how nice i look and my body and when she is around she doesn't give up a fight when I flirtatiously touch her, she allows me to see her body sometimes when she tries on clothes. She is still somewhat trying to so things separate from me and whenever she comes over or is in my presence she does not bring her cell phone as if she has something to hide. She stated that no other man is going to be in our daughters life and that she can only have me as there father because no other man will fill my shoes and that I am a perfect father and man. I think she just wants to be single because the life is alluring, she can date around feel free to explore options of a better love just in case some one else was meant for her but at the same time if I attempted to cut her off she psychologically find a way to be friend me. she wants me to date which I am already doing and shows small signs of jealousy in her statements but then immediately reply as if she was just playing when she made the statement. If I do not answer her call she becomes upset and has her mother or sister call me to see if i am purposely ignoring her. She wants to stay in contact but at the same time she wants her freedom. We have to keep contact because we have 2 daughters and they live with me. What do yall think this is and does anyone know of a similar situation. Mind you she is a real cool person she just doen't have any experience in other relationships beside me and she decided she wanted freedom at 30years old because she does not want to live life with any regrets. I gave her space, I let her be, I do not call her but she contacts me everyday and asks about the children or something small. She does not want to get in long conversation with me because she thinks I am going to convince her to come back and she wants to be shallow for a change. Should I remain her friend to see what becomes, should I keep hope for future reuniting or can someone give me clear explanation on what they think this is etc.???
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ayngel
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Yahsmith19, I think she wants both: freedom and you.You for Being her best friend, freedom for other purposes.
You have to think for yourself if this is enough for you. If I were you I wouldn't count on getting back but start to look around for a girl who wants to be more than a friend.
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