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hi, this is my first ever time on this site so i'm not even sure if i'm posting this in the right section.
i was wondering if anyone could give me a little advice as my friends are'nt in a relationship so i cant really go to them with my problems.
im 19 years old and started seeing my current boyfriend when i was only 15, so its been about 3 and a half years give or take.
in the beguinning he was the nicest boy ive ever met (which made me fall for him). He used to hold my hand and kiss me in public, pay me compliments, take me out, do all the things that you could think of. He managed to win over my parents and my friend which is pretty hard going.
Then when it came to the time to mention the L word (LOVE), he told me first n i said it back then everyday after that moment he would say it and i know he truely meant it.
when it came to getting intimate for the first time i dare say it was perfect, really romantic.
2 years into our relationship we decided to go on our first holiday. It was brill and we had a really fun time.
Then things changed. gradually (and i must stress that word), he became, well sort of, different. over time he stopped holdin my hand in public, stopped kissing and cuddling me without me asking, stopped paying me compliments, stopped wanting to go out. So our normal day to day life is: go to work, come home, he comes over to my house, we lie on the bed hardly touching, then i try to start a conversation and get told to be quiet, so we watch tv until its time for him to go home. in that time we've never said we love each other or cuddled or kissed and not to mention getting intamate. When it is time to go he'l give me a kiss n says he loves me but tbh i think thats out of routine.
we are going on holiday next year and im really looking forward to it. i really want a romantic holiday like what you see in the films but i dont think he's all that intersted.
I know after a while that people stop making an effort but does it really go this far? ive treid every way possible to talk to him about this and his replys are always the same (stop being silly, or sshh man, or look thats really annoying me now)
can any one help me please, maybe tell me how to talk to him or whether i should end it (which i dont want to do but open to opinions). any advice would b very much appreciated!
thankies x
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