Does she like me more than a friend

my situation is kind of difficult to explain by typing so im sorry if its really long but anyways...

theres this girl in my college that i have known for about a year now. i hang out with her everyday, basically all of my spare time.she is really cool and fun to hang out with.she has a BF but he is cool with me hanging out with her, ive hung out with him but pretty much just when the two of them are together. I knew her before they got together so i think thats why he lets me hang out with her. anyways ive liked this girl since i met her but she has always had a BF, not the same one as now tho. Over time she has been getting closer and closer to me and now im pretty much her best friend. Anyways in the past few weeks she has been getting more and more physical with me. Some of the things she does is she tries to tickle me or just feel me up randomly i guess u could say just joking around, she likes to rub my ears and play with my hair. she also like to put her feet on my legs and she has asked me to give her a foot massage a few times and has fallen asleep on myu arm a few times, she also likes it when i carry her around in my arms like from the couch to the door. she is really outgoing so she likes to ask alot of really personal questions. but recently she has started asking me some really hardcore questions. she asked me if i would go out with her if she left her BF and then she asked me if id loose my virginity to her if we were going out. i was with my friend at the time and i just felt really ackward answering the questions since my friend was there, he said she looked really dissapointed in my answers, but if i would have been for real with her and honest i know she would have liked my answers a lot more, and probably left her BF for me if i would have really tried. this happened a few days before valentines day. then like that friday she calls me up in the morning just basically to talk to me and stuff, and after a while of talking she was like i miss you and all this stuff, idk i just find that kind of stuff weird to tell a friend thats a guy when ur a girl with a BF cause she also tells me she love me alot too.

ok this is just kind of a little side note to kind of broaden the scope of the situation. ok i gave her my spare key to my car cause i lock my keys in my car all the time cause im retarded, and she gave it to her BF to keep for her. anyways i was chillin with my friend at around 12 at night and i locked my keys in my car. it had my house keys on it so i was screwed and he was my only hope and he lives an hour away. so he drove all the way back at 1 in the morning to give me the key. he is a really nice guy and everytime i think about asking her out i just see him driving back an hour lol.

but yah, when it comes down to it i really don't know what to do, i ask all my friend for advice cause i hang out with them with her and they all say the same thing pretty much and thats that i should just ask her out but still im really afraid of rejection/that it may be ackward hanging out with her and her BF if i asked her.

so i was just wondering what you think about my situation. do you think i should ask this girl out or just continue being friends with her. any advice would be really apreciated.

Hi Bart_FTW, welcome to the forum, I am happy you joined us.


I think you should just stay friends with her. What do you feel yourself?

i really don't know its cool with me either way, but it would be cool to go out with her for real.

Then I think you should definitely stay just friends. It is not nice to go out with a girl that has a b/f already - eventhough you knew her before him, but I mean in the dating meaning. If she would like to go out with you she should break up with this b/f first. That is far more fair to all.