ex girlfriend= major problems.

This may be one of the most seriously screwed up posts you will ever read.

I broke with a gf this summer and everytime we tried to talk we ended up argiung over the stupidest things. An example would be that she didn't believe I had attended a party the night before, she called me a liar , hung up the phone and didn't talk to me for days.

Anyway.

Once we left for college we didn't talk for quite some time. I casusally called her one night and it was pretty friendly but short, about a minute. We didn't talk for a couple days, until I drunk dialed her. All I said was i missed her and still loved her a lot. She laughed at me for being so drunk and hung up the phone. A few weeks later I called her again, drunk. I admit, pretty big mistake. Things went horribly this time. Another guy picked up and threatened me and hung up. I called back and got ignored.

Then about two months passed and i casually messaged her, saying I thought it would be nice to talk.
She responded with the threat of a restraining order..... I was shocked. Heartbroken, I sent her one last message, explaining that I still lcared about and missed her and that I wouldn't be contacting her anymore. (PM me for a copy)

My question is...... What the heck!?!? All i did was try to talk to her and she freaked out. Any suggestions as to why?

Nobody can get a restraining order for receiving sporadic phone calls. She talks nonsense. Anyway, why don't you go on with YOUR life? You can very clearly see she isn't interested in you, so why do you torture yourself so much in not moving forward?

It's not that I even want to be with her anymore. I don't. It's just that we really did have so much in common while we were together that she became one my best friends and I really had hoped that just because we had broken up it didn't mean we had to sever all contact.

PS. i say that I don't want to be with her but have no idea what i would do given the opportunity to be... not that i see it happening. Hopefully I'd keep my head but, i dunno. i'm still a heartbroken puppy.

Well Hazyry then it's about time you start thinking about yourself and try to move on. This waiting for a p-o-s-s-i-b-l-e chance to ever get together again is keeping you in limbo and that is not a healthy, or fair to yourself, place to be.


Take yourself into your own hands, and start looking what is good for you. Without having her involved, because that won't help.

yeah, i guess your right. i have been trying to get her out of my head recently. i guess i was just mainly curious if anyone else has had random lawsuit threats. haha. it actually made me laugh when she told me that she had a restraining order pending because she knows i was in Mach Trial for four years. i knew she didn't have one but it upset me she would even say that.

Doesn't matter what she says When you start looking after yourself it really doesn't matter anymore whatever she has to say to or about you. You will get to that stage, I'm sure

yea. i suppose your right. thanks for the help. i guess i was just looking for a place to vent.

Yes, I understand
Don't forget that people can only 'hurt' us as much as we let them