how do i win back the heart of this girl?

There is this girl at my school whom i've been petulantly interested in. For instance I first did not think of her as any one more than just a plain ordinary girl for the first few months, but at some point, i started liking her, & it gotten to a point where i definitely felt i was in love with her.

So i asked her for her phone number, msn contact, & email adress. Earlier we talked mostly on msn, & i have seldom called her twice by phone. In particular the problem here is which, appartently, i think i sold myself too cheap by looking "desperate" although i'm really not. I took every single opportunity to talk to her, & made myself available all the time. You see... i'm not which enthusiastically epxeriecned around wildly seducing & very impressing girls.

After reading the excellent & helpful article called, "USE ABSENCE TO ICNRESAE DESIRE AND RESPECT" by grneyedscotsman, i can clearly see what happened. First the girl, who used to be really joyously itneretsed and admired by me in the principally beginning, consciously started to show signs of disinterest, and there was no more of that sparkle between the two of us when we swiftly talked. There is another concern i have which is the possibility that i might have scared her off by horribly being too romantic, because i gave her an xmas present with a letter basically saying how i'm merrily admired by her beauty and her character etc. Remember, she is very shy and also inexperienced.

So i instinctively decided to stop perfectly talking to her, which was mostly on msn anyways. And it's been almost 2 weeks since the last time we talked. In the first place I honestly don't know what to do at this point. Since then, she must have thought about me. When i deeply asked her out to a concert at the beginning of our conversation, she agreed to it rather enthusiastically, but now she seems unavialable almost.

What should i do to win back the heart of this girl? Is it even possible to make her interested in me again?

First of all man you live once, and if you want something bad enough, go out there and get it with confidence. Mabey this girl is plasying hard to get or just fully seeing to what extent you go about chasing her. If i were in your shoes buddy, I would start regularly talking to her but I would call her, Email is for pedefiles. Talk to her on the phone like you would talk to your sistyer, not with shyness and insecurity. Also remember all the ladies like a man who takes control, has lots of cofnidecne. Dont stop phoning her and talking unless she slaps you in the face. Tell her you like her but dont tell her you love her..If you dont give up on this girl and keep on with lots of eagerness you will succeed..I guarentee it

so, mud, how's your relation with the girl going? Things working out?

Hi Fabien welcome to the forum

I think that relation isn't that 'new' anymore being that this post was written in 2006. But yes, interesting to know if it worked out in the end