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I’ve honestly never had this problem in my life. When I really liked someone or let’s say even loved, it never took me that long to get over them. I was the type of person who realized I was better off and moved on to the next guy. Looking back that may not have been the best solution to my problems, but hey I never spent months crying over someone, until now.
I don’t know if it’s because he made me laugh every time we were together. I don’t know if it’s because he was so gorgeous and fun I never glanced at another. I don’t know if it’s because for thr first time in my life a boy, this boy, made me feel completely happy and I never wanted to let that go. He didn’t have to be in love with me and he didn’t have to be my boyfriend. He just had to care about me and want just me.
Doesn’t seem that hard, does it? Well Iv’e got news for you, it’s the hardest thing I’ve ever had to go through, well almost.
We ended things because he didn’t want anything serious and hey if I had a boyfriend since junior high I would feel the same way. He said relationships turn you into ugly and jealous people and they make people change. I didn’t know he was right until later. There are so many demands in relationships that people end of feeling obligated to call, text, or see that person that it pretty much ruins said relationship. I wish things could be simple like the song, “I want you to want me.” That’s it.
As for me, I never thought about it that way. I mean we laughed, drank, fooled around and had the best time. I can’t figure out why that wasn’t good enough or if he even still feels the same way about me. It drives me crazy to not know if he thinks about me or feels that chemistry when we stand close to each other.
Maybe I’m just crazy,or maybe for the first time, I’ve fallen in love with someone. AHHH! I just can’t help thinking, WHY CAN”T I GET OVER HIM? I know all the steps in getting over guys, trust me I have been there numerous times.
I’ve had guys who slept with girls the same day they were with me. I’ve had guys call me at two in the morning trying to just “get some.” I mean I’ve even dated someone who picked drugs over me. I’ve dated them all and it’s this guy, just this one person, who I can;t get out of my mind.
I always think that if there was something to hate about him, something he did wrong, then I’d be done and forget him. He just seems so perfect in my eyes and I can’t take those blinders off. I don’t even want to.
I guess I’ll just keep doing what everyone else does. I won’t see him, text him, stalk his facebook, stare at old pictures, or just plain think about how much I want him. In the end you just get burned. Lesson learned, don’t waste your time on someone who won’t waste theirs on you. It’s never worth it and all I know is my heart can’t take much more.
Good luck to all the rest of us and to the ladies who have those special men, you hang on to them, because you just never know.
Live your life,
Andi
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I understand what your saying and i know how you feel too. i can really relate to when you say “I always think that if there was something to hate about him, something he did wrong, then I’d be done and forget him. He just seems so perfect in my eyes and I can’t take those blinders off. I don’t even want to.”
My ex broke up with me as he didnt and still doesnt know what he wants anymore but he still loves me and doesnt want no ones else he just needs to sort his head out.. so im suck weather to move on and never know if we was ment to be or wait around for someone who may never come.. so i have no reason to hate him, yes he did break my heart and ruined my birthday and now my christmas and new year. But he had to do what he felt best which sucks big time cause when you love someone and they leave you, you not only lose your love but u lose your best friend. The person who makes everything better, whos always there when you need them and gives you the right advise even if its not what you want to hear you but you know that they are right. maybe i dont want to hate him as im scared cause i would lose him forever.
Relationships are very demanding and they do change people but if it changes you for the worst then is that person really for you? You want that special person to change you into the best you can be into a better person. if that makes sence.
you would think that someone would of wrote a book on how to deal with break ups and moving on. nearly everyone goes through one in their lifetime, so why does no one have the answers to moving on.. everyone says you can do better.. dont worrie your be alright and yeah this may be true but unless you know that couple and the deep they had. Then maybe people would think again about saying that to them.
like my mum says only time time will tell…
My boyfriend loved me but I was unable to fulfill his needs after a period of time so he left me and started dating another girl. He was my first love and it kills me to know he’s not there anymore. However I just have this gut feeling to leave it alone and leave our broken relationship on a high note. Time will tell and I don’t know what will happen I love him so much and we both (being in high school) dont know what we want and we just complicate eachother’s lives. I didnt burn all my bridges with him because i love him and although I am seeing someone else I feel as if we are just ment to be together….It hurts so bad I don’t understand how I’m coping but I just feel okay with the situation like things will work out. If we are ment to be it will happen if it’s not I will find someone 100000x better.
I agree with you no ones girl. Time will tell…
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that was very inspiring. thank you!
girl i know what you are saying.. i had bad luck with men , im 42 and look 32.. met this guy,instantly we had attraction to each other, he was the most passionate man i have ever been with.. we laughed all the time,, i dated him for 2 months and i was so happy, til he said i don’t know if im ready to be in a relationship,, we spit, starting dating other people, i thought for sure he won’t find anybody else… 2 weeks ago i texed i miss him.. he texed me back he met someone that he needs to invest himself into. he cared about me and that it just happened with her and he said every thing just clicked,, i don’t get it,because he said he loved being with me, always telling me how beautiful i am, even without makeup… i was good to him too.. i cry , i called to tell him im happy for him that i would still like to keep contact, he never responds.. that hurts more knowing that he won’t talk to me…. we had something special. why her and not me,
see my promblem is i went to lulla highschool and met this cute guy so sweet and cute.than like at the last minute of school yr i told him how i feel during the summer i end up moving and i havent seen him since and i steal love him so much
well first i think that too many gurls spend time crying over guys which they realy shouldn’t..their is so many other guys out there inm the world that are single and /looking for a pretty girl..and some guys realy dont care much for the relationship nor the girl.so girls go out and find yourself a better man.
holy crap, that was like reading my mind seriously. except he never liked me, at one point i truly believed he did, i actually believed we were gonna end up together, but it was just one big misunderstanding and it left me so heartbroken, for one moment everything i wanted was about to come true and it just didn’t. we’re reeeeally good friends, i talk to him everyday and see him at school so it’s almost impossible to get over him. at the moment he’s not going to school for a while so i was convinced i was over him, but i’m not quite there yet. i just hope when he comes back the feelings won’t return with him.
but yeah, really the best bet is to forget he exists. delete him from your phone, im, email, anything, and try to avoid seeing him as much as possible. and live your life, have fun, be with your friends, go out and meet other guys. good luck! xo.
AH I KNOW THAT HURTS. i know the pain. just know that time heals the heart and time will tell. theres always something out there to help ease the pain girl! youre just gonna be stronger thats it :0
i understand. and i wish i would have hung on to MY guy…but it too late now. thats what i hate about love. falling in love is like falling off a cliff. at first you think, "wow what a rush!" then BAM. its over.
2 weeks i feel like shit
i need the days to turn into weeks…anyone knows where i can get this clock to buy??/