Hello Fort_Walton88, welcome to the forum
This:
she said she doesn't know what she wants or needs until she gets her head right.
I think is your cue. It will be hard but the only realistic chance of ending up together is for you to wait until she is a little more sure about everything. It would be a waste if this relationship would start all over again and nothing in her head would have been solved.
From you sir is required to be patient. Nothing else. However hard this may be ....