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Posted 1 Year, 2 Months ago #1
The thing is I love this girl too much. At first we were friends grew to be something more. At first I was a FANTASY to her, and a month ago she said "I don't see you like that anymore" I had one pathetic moment the day after the break up which was one of dumbest things ever it hurt so bad. Anyway thing is I've analyzed all aspects of what I want, what I need to change, ect. All of this was done through no contact. The extent of contact has just been a passing hi in the hall. Thing is I'm very close to graduating, but I'm remaining around here, where she is, so that's not problematic. I really need something to help me break the ice again cause she hasn't attempted to say jack to me since the break really. I figure she prob does miss me even though I was sweating that in the beginning. But yeah I just need help I've done pretty much everything formulaic, no contact, not bitter, pretty much been displaying the past me that she loved you know? Well any way things are really complicated now. B/c it's like I've run out of time, I'm not trying to put a deadline on this but yeah I want to get my thoughts out to her without seeming to be desperate before she leaves for vac. on the 17th of june, and before I graduate which is next week or the week after.
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Posted 1 Year, 2 Months ago #2
Oldfaithful if she saw you as a fantasy I don't think she is too eager to get involved with a 'real person'. She's probably still hunting fantasies and until such time that she is ready to land on earth you will just have to wait. This is my view only obviously based on what you wrote and me not knowing all the small details from your daily contact in the past. Reality may be totally different
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