Have I got a chance?

i split from my girlfriend about 2 weeks ago due to arguing which mostly was caused by me; i was very insecure this lead to many of the arguments. She told me by text, at that point my heart shattered. Even though we had bad times we had very good times too, and on many occasions we sed we wanted to be together forever.

Since she dumped me ive been a wreck i havent slept, ate or drink and i lost half a stone in a week. Ive pleaded with her to give me a chance and have told her all my insecurities have gone. At times shes told me she wants to be single and that i should move on and other times shes told me shes confused about everything.

I dont know what to do, ive sent her text messages saying i love her with all my heart, that ive changed, we would be perfect, but she hasnt responded the way i wanted her too. Someone please help me fast what can i do?

Alwaysloveyou, welcome to the forum. I hope you will enjoy it.

As for your question: it is really hard to know, right? Every guess would be a good one. Ask her to give you a trial period in which you can yourself to her. Have you done that already?

Good luck!

I have talked to her yesterday, she said her head is f**ked up right now and she she doesnt know what she wants, she said she needed space. Should I give her space? im just worried that when she has sorted everything out she will forget about me, give me some advice please. Thanks

Of course you gotta give her space. You wouldn't want her to take decisions that will go sour after some time again now, will you? She's gotta get come to her decision being perfectly sure, or else problems will start soon afterwards again anyway.

I think she'll appreciate it if you give her space, that will show her that you love her enough not to be selfish to force her into something she's not sure of.

Good luck I'll cross my fingers for you

i seen her in a club last night, i was laughing and joking with my friends, she was only a few yards apart when it seemed she was crying, why do you think this this? i caught her a few times looking at me

She's probably going through a difficult time. But it wouldn't help to barge in to that and 'try to comfort' her. It is like a package deal: she needs time, this is what she has to go through in order to get her thoughts (and feelings) clear

i went out for a few drinks last night, this girl came upto me and wanted to talk, i had 5 minutes to myself and i was really upset because of my ex and how much i love her, anyway we chatted for awhile, today i fort id tell my ex, fort it would be best to tell her myself, when i did she seemed upset asking so many questions about her and stuff, should i ask for a chance again?

Juat give her a little openingssentence (without being pushy) and let her do the talking. If she won't take you up on that, then the time is not right yet and she needs more of it.

well alots happened, she said if i gave her more time she thought we would have been back together, I hav sed that to prove iv changed i will give her time, do u think she still might love me? if she said that we probably would be back together, i havent spoke to her for a week or so now, what do u think?

I think you should set a date by which you are either given a firm answer or decide 'that's it' - because everything has its limits. You cannot go on waiting forever. But, on the other hand, it's your life and your feelings, so who am I to give you such advise? Anyway, the only one knowing if she still loves you or not is her...

What do you "really" want?