he broke up with me after a year and im pregnant

i met this guy a year ago... he's my best frien brother and he actually came onto me... at first he wasnt really my type but i loved talkin to him because of his accent.. what it is, is dat he's jamaican and my fantasy was always to be with a jamaican man.. anyways he grew onto me and i fell in love with so deep that the word love doesnt seem to discribe how i feel about him anymore and he said he love me to... i year on and im now pregnant for him and he know i am but thing wasnt going to well for both of us and he was really stressed (not because i am pregnant)he dicussed having an abortion because we're both not ready but after finding out it was a boy he changed his mind cause he said he really wants a son but at this point im already at the clinic so i walked out then he text me to do wat i want and dat 'he wants out' even tho he just made me not go thru with the abortion.. i dont understand y he broke up with me... things havent been goin to will for us over this past month and it seems dat he have been avoidin me thru out dis month b4 he broke up with me... but i love him 2 death and i cant live without him... i never felt so hurt b4 in my life and i cant stop cryin... what should i do and do any1 kno or have and opinion on y he left me.

I think that you recognized that he wasn't your type and probably not someone good for you, but you went along anyway because he met your fantasy and because of his accent. He may have not been serious in the first place and could have been with you out of convenience. The pregnancy may have also driven him away because of the additional responsibility of having a son as well as having to commit to you further.

What happens now is up to you. Avoiding you for a month is not a good sign, so I would just move on without him. He left you at such an important time, so it's better that you look out for yourself now.

i can understand i jus had my whole life turned upside down in only two months by sons daddy and i was eight months preg. with our second lil boy when he left.

But what ever you do u have to do it for u, plan ur life with out him, if he can walk out on u after a year you don't need him around to do the same to ur baby. that only makes i worse. if he show seriousness after the birth of ur baby than u'll have to decide what's gonna happen next. but make him work for i jus giving him any authourity to walk in and out of ur life ony leads to no respect and downgrades ur an ur son's importantce to him.don't give him first hand in ur life. don't let him play with ur mind.do wat is best for u and urbaby. i know it get's ruff, "but the sun always shines after the storm"