He Broke Up With Me, but he says he still loves me-HELP!

Things were going perfect, Seth woke up in a great mood, he was texting me and texting me, and said he was so glad i was awake, because he said he was in a good mood. I thought that was wonderful, we sort of had a bad week, and this was a brilliant friday morning. He told me he loved me, and he even said Forever And Always. Then one of my friends called, and said he had told another girl that he was breaking up with me. The girl he told was one of his best friends, and i know they dont like each other. Hes brutally honest, and he would have told me. So of course, i go straight to the source, i call and ask him. I ask him if everythings ok with us, and he says "yes of course" i ask him if he is planning on breaking up with me, he says "no" I ask him if he had told anyone if he was going to and he said yes, i asked him why, and he said he didnt know. He does this alot, sends mixed signals, he missed being single, and wished he could hang out with his friends more. But he never asked me if i would mind if he hung out with his friends, of course he can, im not his mother. We talked alittle bit more, and he told me he wanted to break up with me, but that he was scared, i told him to just do it...and he did. SO we hung up. I was texting him, and i asked him how he felt about it. He said he felt good. I was heartbroken. I asked him if he was never coming back, he said he didnt know, that it just depends.. I keep telling myself we are just taking a break, everyone needs a break right?? We went out for a year, and i knew he might need some space. He left for a work camp that day, and before he left, he told me he loves me. i told him i love him too. I want to be with him so bad. I feel like its my fault, because i was a jealous, paranoid, freak. All i want is a second chance, and i know that we can work it out. All i need is a second chance. I want to show him that i can control myself, and im wondering what i should say to him, how long to wait, how to ask him if its just a break..i really need advice, and id appreciate it

It sounds like all your answers were there. You felt like he needed his space and you gave it to him. But one thing, I'll tell you. This guy sounds like he's full of uncertainty. If someone keeps giving me the vibe that he doesn't really know and he says it anyway, I would give him a short leash. It's best to just move on for now until you have a better gut feeling about what he really wants.

Okay. Hold on. He told you honestly that he didn't want to be with you anymore. Then you texted him to ask him how he felt about it and when he told you he felt good about breaking up with you, you were heartbroken. What's wrong with this picture?


The more you text him, call him, try to work things out, the more you lose your self-respect. Leave him alone and move on. He doesn't want to be with you.