hello people of the Forum!! my girlfriend is very hormonal a...

hello people of the Forum!!

my girlfriend is very hormonal and she goes into moods all the time. Recently she has been less affectionate with me and she says she "feels different" when i asked her "do you want to break up" she said no but she is confused?? (which believe, me makes me double confused!!) Normally we see each other every weekend and she says she used to really look forward to seeing me but now she doesnt get as excited anymore. she did suggest a change of rountine but she never has the money to do "fun things" as she is in uni and lives off loans.

any help with this would be fantastic!

is there anyway i could spice things up?

cheers

Few things, randomly.

Do you have the money to do things?

How long has she been in this slump? How long do you think and how long is she saying its been?

I ask, because for the most part, this is common. How long have you two been together?

In the early stages of a relationship, I believe, people go through a transition where they begin to self doubt themselves, doubt the person they are with, and doubt the relationship as a whole. I think this is natural, as I have gone through this stage myself. There was no reason why I felt this way and it actually was a phase that passed.

i have the money to do a few things but I'm still looking for that "dream job" and really need to save all that i can (im also hoping to move within the next few months so i need all the pennies i can get). This is not me being selfish if i could i would wine and dine her every second of everyday.


We have been seeing each other for a 13 months i suppose it started being like this 11 months in.

i think the problem is not only the relationship. She told me that she feels like she puts on a front to people and that she is only really happy when she is alone.

she tells me she is confused and wishes she knew what was going on in her head.

thanks for the feedback

Oh, I did forget to mention, what could be the most obvious answer, is that she really could be hormonal. She may need to see a physician.

well ive suggested a doctor and she going to have a look into it. i think thats the best i can do for the moment anyway.