its up to you...if you really think that you want to be back with her and work things out than go ahead and make contact, but you also have to remember you might cause yourself more pain. just keep that in mind. iv have been apart from my bf for about a month now and he only called me when he was drunk to beg and plead. but afta that he hasnt been able to show his feelings or try to work things out. hes the one that betrayed me. so iv come to the conclusion that no matter how much i want him back, he has to be the one to win me back or want me back. so just consider what you would benefit from trying to get her back....in the end its what you want...so just be prepared and have no expectations if you contact her...good luck