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hello, this post might be little diffrent than other situtions . i meet my girlfriend 3 yrs 2w months go.. it was love at first sight..we were great and we starting doing this mlm business. For 2 yrs nd 1/2 we have worked AND been togheter day and night 24/7.. we got used to each other and we broken up alot. We still love each other but every time we get back its the same routine.. 3 days ago she was all in love but later that night we argued and she said she wanted to break up. She dosn;t love me those were her words. Now i don’t know what to do. i cant kick her out my office.. she lives off this.. so what should i do??
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Huh, sounds like quite the pickle you’ve gotten yourself into. I would advise her to look for work elsewhere and agree upon a date where she should fully be out of the business. Does she have money vested into the business? If so you will need to write up some legal documents where you buy out her shares in the company.
I couldn’t see it as a profitable move for the company to continue to work together if she is so flakey to say she loved you one moment and then breakup and say she doesn’t love you the next.
Don’t mix up the emotions from the relationship with the business side of things. Businesss is business and hopefully she will understand that.
Well it seems to me she either loves you and is just extemely afraid. Woman are very difficult to read. Well do you love her? Do you show her everyday how special she is to you? Woman need that extra notification a lot. And so from what I understand you guys work together? Well that’s very a diffciult situation. If you too are not to be going out, she needs to know to stop messing around. You guys need a deep conversation with eachother. Write your pros and cons down. You also could argue cuz you’re in lots of ways similar.
Well, whether or not she invested in the business you said yourself that you started it together. Have been running it together, so regardless she is a half owner of the business. Why should she walk away? Maybe that is what is making her so crazy…. are you telling her what to do like her boss when she is your partner, not your subordinate. Many husband/wife business owners make that mistake. the men think that they are the boss automatically because they have a penis.
Regardless of how you got to where you are now, you need to give her a settlement. But think of it this way, it better be an offer that you are willing to take would the role be reversed, because if she is a savvy business woman that is exactly what she could do. Say I dont want this but I will offer you the same terms to buy out your share? WHAT? You dont want that piddly amount? Then why should I settle for it either? Fair market value. My ex tried to pull that crap on me, instead he now pays me 10% of the business to keep quiet and out of his affairs. I took a 40% cut however, he got to keep an established business. And if he would have simply closed out this one and re-started another under a new name right away, my lawyer assured me that wouldnt fly either. I am sorry it is not working, but you still have to pay up buddy.
This should be posted in the forum, and not on the blog. you will get more responses there. (You can copy/past to the quick topic window on the top right of the page)
I know what you mean, its hard can anyone help with my situation? My girlfriend of the last 3yrs off and on broke up with me over a month ago, even after we came back from a trip form jamaica ! She did the whole I love you but not in love with you thing, but then I found out a week later on facebook , that she had someone else , probably the whole time we were dating these last few months! When I went to her home to get an explanation to why she lied to me , she called the police , and later tried to get a restaining order against me! (crazy right ) but after the judge heard my side about us being in Jamaica together , she threw it out of court. Now I do think of her often , and the way things had gotten , it seemed like she almost hates ne ! But why? I wasn;t the one cheated and lied , I just found out the truth and confronted her with it ! Its been almost 6 weeks since everything took place , I didn’t want to loose her friendship , but i know that she probably doesn’t want to even see or hear from me ever again.