Hey girls! Do you remember “He’s Just Not That Into You” book by Greg Behrendt? I’m bringing this book up because I keep reading so many posts with you ladies being “confused” or stating that a guy is giving you “mixed signals.” Before I bought “He’s Just Not That Into You” book, I asked myself, “How many times did I convince myself that a guy that I was crazy about was giving me “mixed signals” rather than accept that he just was not into me? Too many times to count!
I fooled myself by telling myself, “He’s just shy” or “He didn’t get a chance to see me in my best hairdo” or “He just hasn’t had time to notice me yet, that’s why he hasn’t asked me out on a date.”
WRONG! Every time I got it wrong. The simple and painful truth was that the guy just was not into me - he didn’t want me - he wasn’t crazy about me. Period. End of story.
Ouch. That hurts! They say the truth shall set you free - but first it will annoy the hell out of you. So when I sat down and read “He’s Just Not That Into You” book, I was immediately relieved to get a GUY’S perspective. After reading his book and then Reading the Rules book, by Ellen Fein & Sherrie Schneider, I stopped making excuses for men.
Girls, it’s heartbreaking to keep reading this forum where the guy is treating you like garbage. You deserve so much more. I didn’t think I deserve for a man to ask me on a real date. I used to just “hook up” with them and then call them my boyfriend. That’s not a relationship. Save yourselves heartache. Read “He’s Just Not That Into You” book. Then go out and read The Rules book, which teaches you step-by-Step how to date in such a way that your man will treat you like the gold gem you are!
Well, this book really teaches you to read between the lines girls!
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