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Cyrus255
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Posted 3 Years, 2 Months ago #1
Girl of two years, comes to me honestly, says she was holding hands with a guy for about 5 minutes, apologizes, promises it would never happen again. Say it's only because we've been away for a while and she misses the emotional feeling.

What would you do? Is it a break-up worthy offense? I'm torn, cuz if she'd kissed him it'd be over no doubt, but this is right about my border-territory.
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Posted 2 Years ago #2
WOW.
If things evolved only around holding hands than PLEASE, hold hands as long as you want!

Seriously, I don't think it's a big deal, especially even about that little thing she confessed.

As long as she loves you and you love her back, smile and be happy that that's all that has happened. People make mistakes, hers was not a big one, as long as she does not take it any further.
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Posted 1 Year, 9 Months ago #3
It's not a big deal, especially since she "came clean" about something so minor when it sounds like there was 0 chance of you finding out anyway.
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Posted 1 Year, 2 Months ago #4
Not worthy of a break up offense. She came to you and told you and even told you why. I think without spelling it out, she is hoping you will step up to the plate and give her what she needs. She is trying to tell you. Wasn't the best way. If you love her, try to see that for what that was. She is hoping for that from you.
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