How can i get my ex to say make his mind up about getting back with me?

Hey guys long time no see!

Well loads of things have changed since a month or two..
I'm living back at my ex's house because I have had trouble at home, and he's letting me live here.

Erm, We are very close we should just get with each other to be honest because we act like we are a couple anyways.

He's told me that he's been thinking about asking me out, but he's not so sure yet.. he said he loves me and he doesn't want noone else, he wants to stay close to me until the time is right to ask me back.


On Friday, my mate asked my ex if he would ever get back with me, and he said that he didn't want to answer the question because he was out with his friends, and then she said well are you just taking it slow? and he replied yes, basically i'm taking it slow and seeing how it goes.

So what I really want to know, is this a good thing, and how can I make him want me more, how can I make him make the decision faster lol, I like how we are now, but it would be better if I was with him again..


Thanks for taking the time to read this, I will be thankful for anyone's advice!

Thanks!

i guess this is evil..but make him jealous and wonder what your doing...don't be all over him...guys like a challenge...if your always there for him then he can have you anytime...make him wonder...

but it could backfire as well...its a risk but if you can pull it off it will work out...

or you can keep doing what your doing...and wait...and wonder...and risk loosing him to someone else who presents a challenge to him...

good luck

That is a very good point, thanks for that.

Anyone else have any ideas?

Don't play games with him. Making him jealous is the last thing you want to do. Jealousy is one of Man's worst emotions, it causes us to do really stupid things as well as turns thing into anger or rage. This unfortunately is not something you can speed up. This is a time for trust and a time for faith in him. If you truly love him and he loves you then you have to believe in each other that you will make the right decisions. Patience is the best thing you can do for yourself right now. Enjoy what you have and it will continue to grow into something better. Trust me on this one, Patience, Faith, and Love are the only things that will fix any relationship.

also guys do like a challenge but if he does want you and no one else and you are already acting like a couple and if he truly loves you... it will work the way you want it to. Just takes time.

Yeh i know what you mean, i just want to try and act different so he knows im acting different towards him, but not to different where he gets mad with me or something.