how do I win her back

Well I have tried other relationship guides and I have not gotten her back as of yet. I am wondering if someone can truely tell me how to win back my girl. All seems lost cause she is now in a relationship with a guy that was her friendwhen we were together. At least thats what she told me.To be honest I dont care about that and will not let him stand in my way of having the ewoman that I want to marry and have my family with.
It had been several months and we have not really talked all that much. I dont know what to do here. I need some guidence that will land her back with me. I am a much better man than when we broke up! I was not a great man to her and really treated her as if she didnt matter. I messed up.I was afraid of letting her into my heart and it happened anyway. I want her back...... not need her but want her. Help me please

bgoode. welcome to the forum here

give some more details please. what made her to turn to her friend?

I was only told that after she stared to see him. she said that we were breaking up cause she was not happy. that she could not put her finger on it. lso said that I still love you but not in love with you. you will always be my friend. yeah right.

bgoode, with a "girlfriend" like that you are better off without a girlfriend. If she only looks after what is best for her and hurts other people in the process, you for sure don't want to be part of her world

well lets just say that she looked after me on many levels.I am not worried about the past any more. who was right or who was wrong. I want to have hr back. thats what I am asking the help for.

Did you already tell her that you love her? If there are specifics in where she wasn't happy with you - you could address those one by one and promise (and follow through of course) to be better? Did you try this already?

no I didnt. She just said that she was not happy and that she couldnt be in this relationship anymore.... that she didnt see a future with me. I wwasnt telling her much but I had made plans to ask her to marry me. And I had sent tickets for her favorite baseball game... she gotthe tickets but she is in a relationship.... how do you think I can win her back? I dont even know if she will talk to me.... or even if she is open to hearing me out anymore. She is getting a lot of support from friends and all of that. They are a big impact in her life and I was actually thinking of sending her dad a note telling him how much I love his daughtr and that I want to marry her.