Hung out with this chick once, texted all weekend found out she had a boyfriend and....

Im normally really good with figuring out girls. However im totally stuck with what to do with this chick. I met her at work (she doesnt work with me) and when i got off we chilled. I got her number and texted her the next day. After the weekend of texting and stuff she asked if i had a girl friend i said no asked her and she has a boyfriend who lives a few hours away. She said im cute and sweet lolll. And that she doesnt kno how i dont have a boyfriend. After that night where she texted me that, i texted her the next day. Some casual conversation but it was almost awkward i asked her to chill the next day and she said maybe wednesday instead of tuesday. Made plans and she stopped texting me back. The day before we are going to hang out and she hasnt texted me. Idk if i should wait. or if shes waiting on me to text her, but i feel i shouldnt seen as how shes the one with a boyfriend. also and if i should text her tmmr to hang out or just forget the plans and hope she texts me.

Hi Hmmjack-

Send her a quick text asking if she would like to get together. After that, I would just relax and let her reply accordingly.

You don't need to force the issue with her, especially since she has a boyfriend. If she has enough interest in you, she will contact you.

If you continue to PUSH you will come across as needy and smothering. Give her the space required to make her own decision in this regard.

she ended up textin me last night starting convo. however towards the end i asked wat was goin on for the next day and she didnt text me back. It was night so i thought she fell asleep but now shes just not textin me today to. So do i text her agian to see if were hanging out tonight or just wait and if she doesnt text me just forget it lo

Bro, i think shes fucking with you. text her and ask her to chill like she said yall would. If she makes and excuse just dont reply. Anyone else got ideas?

Hi Hmmjack-

I would just back off and let her make the decision to respond. I certainly don't think you should try to push or force her to respond by continuing to contact her. Just leave the door open for the opportunity to connect at some point.

It is true that a gentleman should pursue a woman that he has expressed interest in but he certainly can't expect her to reciprocate if she is not ready nor willing to act on his advances.

For the record and in most cases, a woman chooses the guy, the guy doesn't choose the woman. You have texted her already...let her CHOOSE to respond when she is ready.

Be patient and take your expectations down a notch!