I am in love with a man who is 27 years older than me

I think i am in Love with this guy who is 27 years older than me... I am 18 and he is 45 .. we have known each other for years and he doesn't have any children... although he despiratly wants them. So do i.

We spoke about moving in together as we both live in unsuitable accomondation at the moment

We are not dating and he doesn't even know i feel this way.. When i am near him i get butterflies...

What do i do?

Wow!!! This is very uncommon and under normal circumstances I would say that age should not be a factor but you will really need to consider the issues that certainly would be evident later as you progress through life.

Being a very young woman, you are still maturing somewhat, still trying to feel your way through life, while he most certainly is at the point where he is settling in.

Before you jump head first into this arrangement, I would look at all of the pros and cons associated with this love fest and decide what is best for the future for both of you because that is what a family is truly based on.

I hope this helps!

Holy shit I am in the same senario you are, except 3 years later after we moved in together.....It would be interesting to talk to you and let you know where I am at. I'm now 21 and he's 48. Not going to lie it is difficult but great at the same time.

cool yeah i am hopefully gonna tell him soon - yeah i can imagin how dificult is it x
yeah love to speak to you
do you have Facebook or MSN?

me tooooo im 21 in love with 45 yr old 3 years later i still feel the same butterflys around him

facebook me Mel Rose

I am 27 years older than my girlfriend of 2 years. she is the greatest thing that ever happened to me. I think she feels the same

Wow x i told him and we are sort of an item, i just dont know where his head is at, at the moment x

one moment is all lovey dovey the next he doesnt even speak to me x what do i do? i really care about him x i dont know if he feels the same x x