I broke up with her but 6 months later I still want her back.

I broke up with my OH as our sex lives where shocking and it wasnt getting better. since breaking up with her ive slept with one person and although it was great it wasnt amazing. I met up with the ex about a month ago and we where talking and get on as well as ever and been out to cinema etc together a few times and get on fantastically.

we where together for 6 years before so its been a hell of a shock so far.

today i saw a picture of her kissing another guy and burst into tears and felt like being sick instantly.

should i try and win her back or am i a plank and need to move on?

You said that the sex wasn't great, so wouldn't that issue be there if you try to win her back?

yeah but that was the only issue, and its something that with work on could be improved. its certainly going to be a condition if we get back together that we will make an effort to sort out that department.

Well, that's a big hit on the ego then. Not only would it hurt to hear that she wasn't good enough with sex, but that it was the only reason that you broke up with her. Double ouch.

You could try to see what she's up to, but she could be busy with dating others.

your crying over her for kissing another man, whereas you had sex with another women. you dont think this bothers her.? if she doesnt know she probably would perceive you did this. what fight you had must not have been good and either of you must not have put a foot in to help eachother, dont care about yourself you have to make it work for both of you and make it mutual. just come out and say how you feel. and if theres a feeling in ehr which there may be or maybe the same as you just go in and take control, but dont be too controlling let her have some fun herself. she will remember the fun then get into your old happy ways, if they were bad avoid what provoked the bad in the past and use a different path to get your ways.

Well told her last night, she doesnt know what she wants as she said she feels like she's only just got herself together. however she has agreed to go out a few times to see how things go and how she feels.

ive always been a believer in there is plenty of people out there for everyone and now over the last 3 months its started to hit me that i dont want any of them. feeling like a complete idiot and im mega scared right now, but i was expecting to go through all this so hopefully things will work out for the best.

not felt like this before, as my friend said, im not in control now and its scary.

I know how you feel. I broke it off with my ex 3 months ago and now I want her back. She started seeing someone else and it liked to killed me. She told me last week that they split up but we have only texted a few times. I never heard from her at all yesterday and she had been in some kind of contact with me for over a week. I am starting to panic wondering if they got back together or not. I love her with all my heart ad I don't want to screw it up. Do I call or wait for her? It does suck not being in control.

If you love her, dont worry about the sex, there are heaps of things you can do to improve it.

Spoke to my mum about it and ill be sending some flowers to her at the end of the week. as said the shoe is certainly on the other foot now.

is hard but I know what I need to do and I'm sure you know what to do aswell BB22. I would say call her and and get her out for a drink. don't waste any more time. the longer you wait the further away she will move. just be sure its what you both want and your not just boucing between relationships.