I broke up with my boyfriend who refuses to quit acting like...

I broke up with my boyfriend who refuses to quit acting like a jerk towards me so why am i the one feeling hurt and how can i stop feeling like this,

ok the reason your feeling hurt is because you cared about him enough to be in a relationship with him. breaking up with some one always hurts theres no getting around the pain. i know this sounds cliche but time heals all wound be it physical or emotional. the best thing for you to do know is enjoy yourself hang with family and friends go to movies try to do anything you can to help distract yourself from your pain until your ready to deal with it just make sure to deal with it. look at it like this if he was always being a jerk to you then he doesn't deserve you!!! you will meet mr. right eventually but instead of looking for him try to meet mr. right now enjoy yourself and try to find someone who falls in love with you for who you are.

i am in your very same position- i love this guy to the core but he is pretty irrational and can be a jerk to me. never physically but always with words. I broke it off and just like you im in so much pain and i wonder if i did the right thing...truth is we both did. they definitely love us back so dont be hurt by the fact he might not care about you- some people just aren't raised right to treat their loved ones with respect and care...so take some space, clear your head from him- try not to call or contact for 30 days (thats what i told myself) because maybe by than you wont feel the same. give yourself this time to be on your own...who knows what might happen