I broke up with my girlfriend but now I want her back.

I broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years but now I want her back. It sounds stupid and I feel like you don't no what you have till its gone. I broke up with her because she is hanging out with her friend that is 18 and my ex is 24 and I am 27, but when she is with her friend she was drinking and kept coming home very late at night so I thought she was cheating, but she says she wasn't and she was constantly lying about little things so I did not trust her. We also have a kid so I always felt like a baby sitter. I just don't no why I want to go back to her though. She says she wants to be friends and to see where thing go from there but I don't no if I believe her. My instinct tells me to move on and find a different girl but that would really do it for sure I think. She wont even let me hug her or any thing

She didn't act like she was into the relationship with her coming home late, constant lies, and leaving the kid for you to babysit. I think that you missed being with in a relationship, but then you were tired of being treated badly. It's up to you if you want to try again though.

i dont believe u should go back out with her. if she wants to remain friends and u want to go out with her she will only be doing the same things from when u 2 were together.maybe u just got used to being in a relationship with her. things happen for a reason and who knows maybe you'll meet someone who will make u happy again. just keep in mind what is best for the child u two have together.
hope my advice helped.

yeah my girlfriend broke up with me because someone told her i was dating someon eelse
and now im sad

mx if she was doing that staying out late drinking. You caught her in little fibs. That is not a relationship. You want that back? You were right to break it off. Honesty is essential to any relationship.

Hey MX-

I feel like there are some extenuating circumstances that may be missing, especially after Sadlady's comments, "Why would you want the vices (late-night drinking with male friends, fibbing, etc.) associated with the relationship?

Of course, these could be isolated incidents of sorts...your feedback would be appreciated.

Overall, trust must be maintained if this relationship is to flourish into something more than friendship.

You don't think she set you up to dump her by doing these things do you?