i dated a girl for a yr an a half, we didnt get along becaus...

i dated a girl for a yr an a half, we didnt get along because of many different reasons, after our break up i was content and had another gf, my then ex, stated going out with someone else also and i got fired up, after 4.5 months of being with my gf, i told her to move with me, and she did, but i still have feelings for my ex and so does she. i told my gf yesterday that i did have feelings for her because they both finally met, she wouldnt eve look at me after, i told her that if she wishes to go back where she use to live that be ok, and she started crying telling shes not going no where, i talked to my ex, she told me to go meet her up tonite at 9 at her place, what to do

you break up with your now girlfriend and leave her the heck alone. That is a horrible thing that you are doing to her. How would you feel if you were in her shoes? The girl you love still has strong feelings for another. Dont be so stupid! If you go meet your ex tonight, you will have ruined the relatioship you now have. Why did you even ask this girl to move in with you? Sounds to me like you are selfish and afraid of being alone. You need to grow up, learn to live with yourself before going about and hurting other peoples feelings only to make youself feel better.

My advice, dont go..but let your girlfriend leave, you dont deserve her

dude...you are a PUTZ

What you do is your choice at this time. Do you want advice or do you want people to agree with you to dump one and go to the other? You need to get serious about what you want in life, and patiently go after it. As soon as you go to bed with a girl you stop thinking objectively about your future. You are locked in until you can't stand her any more and you decide to move on.

Relationships are about working out problems and learning how to read and understand each other, and learning to forgive and be considerate of the other. It's not just about what you can get out of the relationship. It is also what you can add to the relationship. I've always ween marriage as two people helping each other become the best they can. Is you focus self-centered or do you consider her needs very important too?

There is a real problem with live-in relationships that most don't talk about. They don't address all the hurts of the couple, nor do they recognize how much the children are hurt, not just now, but 30 years down the road. It is very destructive to the future of the lives of the children and our country.

What is your life about? What do you want it to be? What kind of relationship do you want? That is what has to be determine by the choices you are making now. Don't just go from one person to another without real thought and commitment to the future. Go at life with a plan based in your standards. People used to call them morals.

JO46, those are excellent questions for all of us...you are wise.