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I have a very unusual situaton. My fiance was my highschool sweetheart age 14 first love, both got married to other people, me in a 26 year marriage an him in 13 years. He has a biological child and her child she brought into the marriage, so he got her at age 3. During a reunion, we knew we soul mates, I new all along... I was going through a seperation with my husband at the time and he said he had been serpated 7 years with his wife.. I moved from another state he moved me 3000 miles to be with him, we were to both divorce, I did get one but he never did, he always made excuses... we he would talk to her he was very submissive and at his childs graduation there was something there, I felt it. I have been with him almost two years now, we have a very loving and great and fun relationship, he drinks too much I know but I love him.. and know he loves me... I was going to work on that drinking, I think it is because he has guilt feelings about working all the time in his relationship with her and kids out of town alot. That he drinks. I have asked him many times to get the divorce and finally I asked last week after a blow up with his wife child I had she hates me. I gave him the two choices. Divorce or leave, he chose to leave... I didnt speak to him for about 5 days he never called or anything, and I called to talk with him and he told me he will always love me but he didnt love me in that way anymore... Blew my mind because a few weeks before that I thought he did. How do I deal with this. Is it her he wants and holding out for or is he confused What do I do and what is going on... He has been distant for about 2 months now... No sex watches tv all day when he is home and doesnt want to spend time with me anymore. Now he is gone. What in the ____happened..
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