i left my gf and now i want her back

hey guys.. i need some advice.. me and my gf broke up about 6 months ago because she tried to make me quit smoking weed and initially i wouldnt and was being hard headed and she just left me.. she says that i broke up with her but i dont think soo.. she makes me choose between smoking and her which she was okay with before all of that and it got involved with her family and she initially wouldnt give me another chance.. ive been thru all the psychotic stages where i blow her phone up and send thousands of text messages...she tells me she wants me to move on etc and she will never take me back.. we have been talking from time to time and see how things are going but i want to take it a step farther and try to get back with her where should i start?? and how

its not that simple...u need to be confident and the man she wants to be with...if u still smoke weed or w.e then ur NOT that guy...u need to be the perfect man and then u can try going after her...its good that u2 are at least talking...but dont be her 'friend' unless u want to be that forever....jus tell her u need space to make ur self better and the man that you should be quit smokign weed etc etc getting a good career so u can support ur self and her if need be...then try going after her as a new man..then she will be impressed...right now u seem like a looser to her..so if u do manage to get back with her it wont last more than couple of weeks...

this happend to me i ignored some1s advice and took her back and now i think ive lost her forever...

Same issue here when I broke up with my ex fiance' because she wouldn't put the weed down. i have came to understand you cannot change anyone but try to help them. and if they don't want to help themselves you can't help them reach the potential you know they are capable of achieving. I realized throughout my past 2 1/2 year relationship of living together she was not going to stop smoking the weed even if we had children. It showed me she did not love me and as committed to the relationship as I was. when you are in love you would do for your partner. And if that means putting the weed down and getting a better job to be the man you know you can be to support you and your family then do it! I was naive to give up my career to please my weed smoking ex fiance who didn't give a rats damn and smoked anyway. All I know is if you don't want to stop smoking and you are content with the way your life is, then you should be with someone that compliments your life style. hint: someone that smokes that Kush!

The other day I told my ex that we shouldn't talk cause I needed to get over her and all I want is for her too b happy even if that isn't with me and I'll b happy for her with who ever she decided to date..I stopped all communication for like two days then late last night She called me said she was gonna stop by cause she was drunk.. Well I ended up seeing her and she stayed at my house until six in the morning... What should I do I really want to be with her and I'm getting nothing but mixed signals from this girl she is driving me crazy

have you stopped smoking weed?

i tried to get my ex to quit too. it didn't bug me if its was once in a while but he religiously smoked! but when i said i can't take this anymore then i decided to walk out. after he realized that then he tried to quit and i appreciated the effort and i made sure he knew i did.

she'll just have to love you for you and you'll have to show her you're cutting it down atleast. if she doesn't appreciated you for that then you should move on!