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I need some advice please. My love of 5 years and I had a major fight more than 2 weeks ago. I found out through her brother, in a not so positive way, that I mocked her grief about her mother passing away. All I said was you can't keep using that excuse to behave in a way that makes me feel bad, she dumps her bad days on me. I feel like a punching bag at times. After I said that I mocked her like naa naa I'm Cathy and I can say watever I want cos my mom died meh, I was child like. Now the night before she did the same to me. It's been 2.5 weeks and she won't talk to me. She said some horrible things that I never thot I'd hear her say, really hurt my feelings... I wish your whole family dies so u know what it feels like to lose someone you love ya that's she said. She hit me many times, I grabbed her wrists and pushed her off me, I hated doing that - we've never been that physical. She says she wants time and space alone, but how much time? She won't tell me so I can hear her side of the story and deal with this and move past it. I've text her repeatedly, she rarely replies. The first time she replied was two days ago and said I don't want to be together, when I asked just to talk and have closure and clarity. I've moved out since our fight, I do still love her and am willing to work it out. She did mention counselling before we had the fight, I have mentioned it again in a text. I don't know what else to do? We had wedding plans, plans to have kids etc. I'm also a flight student so I havent been the most financially suportive partner for more than 2.5 years, but she knew that we talked about it. I think it's money, I feel that is the underlying issue. But I don't know for sure cos she won't talk to me! It's SO frustrating! Please help.
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