I need some good advice here people....HELP ME

ok everyone need your input..... so i havent talked to my ex in over a month now and the month before that she had lost her job at the salon she was at and is now teaching a a local beauty school ( the same school my sister goes to) my sister needs people to come in and get there hair done for the classes up to 8 people a month. So she called me up and i told her i would come in but she said my ex was teaching i was fine with that i figured id be the bigger person and go... so i show up and everyone told me to ignore her...let her some to you...so she says hi i say hi back and thats about all she says to me the time im there, the first time she came over my leg was shaking it does that when im nervous or upset when sitting down so i tried and i stopped it...on the way out my ex had to check my hair and make sure i liked to so she could sign off on my sisters sheet...so i told her its ok she really didnt have to do a whole lot and my ex cut her hair again and she goes well what do you think pointing at her hair i said its different and she pointed at her nose and she took her nose ring out too and said " Im going through alot of changes" i was like ok and then i left......after i leave she starts asking my sister questions "is everything ok ? "whats your brother doing tonight?" " I wish he would of stuck around i wanted to talk to him some more" and she also told my sister that if felt awkward and it did you could cut the tention in the room with a knife...so the next day she asks my sister more questions.... "so did you guys go out to eat" "what did he eat" "do you think i should talk to him but i dont want to sound all motherly" what ever that means... so and today she didnt say anything to her about me so....my question to all of you is what do i do from here i really want her back in my life why was she asking these questions? and ive been doing all the things im suppose to but i want her to call me how do i make a move or what do i do from here im assuming from the questions that shes sparking a little bit of interest so...what do i do....what would you do ? thank you all for your time....any advice will help

Well, you can ask her if she would be interested in catching up. See if she's thinking the same thing that you are.

ok how do i do that.....i cant mess this up

What was her reaction when she saw you?

i dont really remember i walked in the room and didnt look for her i was talking to my sister and she came over and said hey i said hi back and that was about it...she was at work but she acted like she didnt care... but when i left questions and questions to my sister i acted as though i was fine im over it and dont care

Talk to your sister. See what she thinks about the situation. Keep my idea in mind about catching up if your sister thinks that your ex is more interested than she seems to act.

my sister is in an awkward setting and she doesnt know what to think .... but how do i get her to call me ...i told my sister if she asks what im up too just tell her ... maybe you should call him and find out

I just really want her back. And I've been told don't do this and don't do that call her don't call her....I can only assume that since she's asking questions she's interested. I know the last month I've wondered what she's been doing but I didn't ask her sisters or friends I don't call I've been giving her her space and time. Do you think she told my sister those things knowing she would tell me and I would call. Maybe I'm thinking way too much about this. Well still looking for more input

You may be right about how she was expecting you to call. I think that sticking with what you told your sister would help you because then you'd know if she would be interested enough to call you.

Yeah well I think knowing my ex it will take lot for her to call she's never wrong well at least she won't admit it anyways

So are you going to call or not?

I don't know what would you do if you were trying to get her back and if I do call her what do I say ?

It's not that simple. I'd probably want to see if we were talking for a while before I start "getting her back".

Ok how would you go about starting to talk to her? In my situation

See if she would like to meet up with you after work to catch up.

So your saying I should call

What about asking in person?

Well I do have to go back in there in week or two so ill see her again. I could do it then

Good. Prepare yourself for what you want to say and talk about. Let me know how it goes.

Will do thanks guy

You're welcome.