I need some good advice on hoe to get my ex to come back

My ex left me 6 mo. ago she said she felt neglected and unloved. Since then I have done some serious evaluating of myself and can see where I went wrong.

I really love her and can see where I could have been more affectionate and loving. She is my super model.

I would like to hear what the women have to say because women know how women think. If any guys have good advice I am open to it too. What can I do to get her back.

She is see someone right now and has been since she left. She said I pushed her away by neglecting her and she is right. I realize my mistakes would not let it happen again. I told her that. We still keep in contact. She also told me she needs time for herself. I don't know what that means in girl terms.

I don't call her everyday. I have sent her flowers a couple of times since we broke up. It seem like the harder I try the further apart we get.

we were together 8 years.

Honestly, write her a letter.
tell her that you didn't mean to grow a distance and make her feel that way. But in depth you really love her, and its left you missing her and wishing you could've changed things when you had the chance. But say that you understand how she feels, and why she has left, and that you will always be there for her and you just want her to be happy.

I've had a relationship problem myself, i am only good with giving advice but when it comes to getting advice it gets hard.

But as a women... really.. tell her truthfully, that you love her, and it's very hard to lose her like this... but you just want to see her happy and smiling healthy.

What she means by this is, that she might've suffered by feeling unwanted or loved enough and she needs to think about what she really needs right now.