I WANT MY EX BOYFRIEND BACK VERY UPSET ROUND 2! HELP!

So.. as you all know of everything I went through with my ex boyfriend in the topic, I WANT MY EX BOYFRIEND BACK VERY UPSET.. well that was the first set of posts.. we ended up getting back together and have been together a year.. Well he just broke up with me AGAIN on NEW YEAR'S DAY. He told me that he thinks I'm jealous of his mom, we aren't compatible, that I'm selfish, we aren't going to work, that I'm out of chances etc.
I have been through so much with this boy, I don't understand how he can say all of these things. Also not to mention he just gave me a ring and necklace for christmas.

I DON'T UNDERSTAND ANY OF THIS.

The worst part is.. the first time we broke up.. I gave the situation to God and he brought him back to me, but if his intention was to put us back together then why would he want me to get hurt again?

I don't know what God's intention is anymore, because if he was the one that brought him back to me, then why did he let me get hurt again?

ANY ANSWERS...?? And also how can someone say they love someone and then dump them and act as if they never existed in the first place? I just don't understand anymore.

Please if anyone could give me advice I'd appreciate it greatly...

I already lost the love of my life once and now again. I don't know how much more I can take or what I should do. PLEASE HELP!!!

ALSO I FORGOT TO ADD IN THAT at the end of our conversation when he broke up with me.. he said I'm out of chances, AS OF NOW and that his decision still stands AS OF NOW...

NOW WHAT DOES " AS OF NOW" mean>!? Does that mean that he could change his mind tomorrow?? I DONT KNOW OR IS THAT HIM TRYING TO SAY IT'S REALLY OVER FOR FOREVER?!

ANY ADVICE WOULD HELP PLEASE!

I CANT BELIEVE HE CAN JUST DO THIS TO ME AND ACT LIKE WE NEVER WERE TOGETHER OR ANYTHING. I'm SURE HE'S HURTING BUT NOT AS BAD AS ME.. I WISH HE COULD FEEL THE PAIN THAT I FEEL AND REALIZE WHAT HE DID WAS WRONG.. DIDN'T HE LEARN THE FIRST TIME??

I GUESS NOT!!!!!!!! BECAUSE HE CAME CRAWLING BACK LAST TIME BUT YET... I DONT THINK THIS WILL HAPPEN THIS TIME.. BUT ONLY GOD KNOWS AND I NEED TO KNOW WHAT TO DO

ANY ADVICE WOULD HELP PLEASE!!!!!! I WILL DO ANYTHING TO GET HIM BACK

Well I can I really tell you is focus on yourself.
At this time do EVERYTHING you wanted to do that you couldnt do while you were dating.

If you really love him, you dont have to forget about him. Just move on with you life. It's never good to burn all your ties with a person. Even if thats what they want..

My ex bought me a ring and necklace recently and a bunch of stuff then he leaves me for another girl shortly before our 1 year 1 month. A day before to be exact. I cried and I threw my fits.. I even slapped him.

But in the end you only have yourself. I went through a lot with my boy too and he threw it all away. He acts as if I don't exist but one day just one day he's going to want me to be there for him and I dont know if I could do that.

He too told me "not right now" when I begged to get back together with him. What is that suppose to mean? - NEVER.

God works in mysterious ways..You never know what is going to happen. It will hurt. It will hurt like a bitch, but in time you will heal and realize you don't need someone who treats you like that.

I certianly realized that. To be honest you might do more realizing and self discovery than he ever will throughout this whole situation..

Be strong.
You'll be fine

Ok you guys.. here's a better explaination of the break up story: So he had a serious conversation with me in the car about him telling me that he thinks I'm jealous of his mother and his brother's girlfriend. Also he says this, because he thinks I give them bad looks or whatever. In which obviously if I was doing these things I explained to him I don't notice it or they are making it up.

Then new year's eve night he ignored me like the whole night so I was drunk too and i was trying to get his attention. Well he took just by me trying to get attention from him was saying in his eyes that I was jealous of his mom.

So then I decided that I was gonna go outside for some fresh air because i was pissed off and he took it as me being pissed off which not to mention.. he had just lied to me about being able to play the next round of pool and by me wanting to do this he decides to tell me to go get all of my shit and leave. Well then i tried to talk to him even though i was drunk and he was just mad the rest of the night which it was like 3am.

Well the next day he still wouldn't talk to me or give me a kiss or anything and then the way back to my apartment.. i asked him are you going to say anything? and he said i have nothing to say. And then ME being STUBBORN said.. what are you trying to say then? And he said I have nothing left to say to you we're through.

I cried and stuff in my car and like it hurt so badly. Then he talked to me later and gave me all of my keys back and stuff from his apartment etc. He said that i have had too many chances that we aren't compatible, i'm jealous of his mom, i'm obsessed with him and i'm selfish. He also said I wish you never would have met me so that you wouldn't have to go through the pain your going through.. like by sayin this he meant like he didn't want to see me suffer. AND then at the end of the conversation he said, "As of NOW, you are out of chances." and "As of NOW, my decision still stands." And he said but you don't know what tomorrow could bring or next week or next month, etc...

Ya so he didn't leave me with a closure and I haven't talked to him since.. I ended up texting him once and it said,

"I miss you. I'm sorry. I wish you could re-consider."

And he hasn't responded back or anything.

Not to mention another factor, there's a chick he works with in which I have found out through sources is that she's the only one that he's talken too up at his work and I think there's something going on between them already and if that's the case, then this was already pre-planned from the start. Also, she put herself in our business recently and it seems to me that she wanted us broke up so she could have him.

Yes I know I could be jumping to conclusions.. but at the same time what's a girl supposed to think??

Not to mention to make matters worse, my apartment is in the same complex as his not to mention SAME FLOOR he is PRACTICALLY my neighbor. I don't know what to do.

I don't know what to do. I think it's truly over. If it's not then I don't know what he did all of this for in the first place.

And what gets me is the fact that we had a serious talk and it's like he didn't give it but a day for results and then he said I got worse or whatever.. which hello I was drunk New Year's Eve Night... so I just think he gave up way too soon ya know?

Look any advice would help. I don't know what to do anymore. I'm so hurt and I wish I could just make everything better.

Love shouldn't have to be that complicated. You tried for a second time and it didn't work. If you were meant to be it would have worked out for the best. why do you want to chase after someone who clearly doesn't seem interested. It's a waste of your precious time on this earth. I say F*** HIM and go have some fun, make some memories, meet some new people and you will probably find that there are soooo many better guys out there. It's not worth it!!

Also, let me go ahead and add in that I drove home to my parent's house since the night he broke up with me. I plan to go back in a day or so...

How should I react if I see him?

I know my body is going to want to cry and want affection from him.. in which I won't get. Will he even notice me? Will he have another girl with him or what??

Like honestly, I expect him to hate me and I expect to be extremely upset when I do see him.

But is there any chance of him realizing what he's done?

I don't know or I don't think...... and if so why hasn't he called me or communicated with me by now?

I just WANT TO KNOW what he's thinking!!!!!! And if there's even another chance for us...

HOW DO YOU FIGURE THAT OUT?!?

ALSO.. I WANT TO KNOW if he's already found someone else.. that way I can hate him more.

I have prayed to God about all of this before and like I just don't understand. I know in my heart God brought us back together the first time, so why would God let me get hurt AGAIN!? BECAUSE I FEEL THAT'S WHAT HE'S DOING... SO IT DOESN'T MAKE SENSE AT ALL.

Please any advice would help!

Personally, I think the relationship is over and you are just hoping it's not. But nothing from what you wrote makes it sound to me that this guy wants anywhere this relationship as much as you do. It sounds like you both have trust issues with each other... another bad sign. I just don't see anything in this relationship other than feelings. If he really did care about you, he would leave you alone... when you love someone, don't you want the other person to be happy?

I wouldn't go to this house. Unless you like the drama. Some girls REALLY LOVE drama so I don't know about you. If you do like drama, go to his house and continue this relationship. It's fun to some girls

Ok update.. he still hasn't talked to me at all.. and I'm driving back up there sometime today.

How do I react if I see him?

Not to mention I got really drunk last night and texted him this,

"I miss you so much Christian. "

and then I also texted him:

"How the fuck can you act like I dont exist? I know I mean more to you than that. Don't play that shit with me."

Why hasn't he said anything back to me? I find it so odd, because the Christian I knew.. WOULD HAVE SAID SOMETHING BY NOW HONESTLY.

So.. I don't know what to think and I feel lost. How can he just throw me away like a piece of trash? I truly miss him and I do want him back. I just don't know if he truly hates me and that's why he's not talken to me.

OR.. he has other intentions behind this..

what do you guys think?>??

I NEED ADVICE PLEASE!!!! I JUST DONT SEE HOW THE LOVE OF MY LIFE CAN JUST ACT AS IF I DONT EXIST!!!!!!!

Hi Dawn,

After reading through all your posts I sense that your boyfriend is still not mature enough to handle commitment in your relationship. It also seems that you are doing all the running after him which is wrong. This will scare the daylights out of someone that is not ready for commitment.

The best option is to change your tactics completely. No doubt you have heard of reverse physchology?

Have a lok at some great advice at http://www.lifeswayz.wordpress.com

This guy has not realized how special you are yet....

Blessings

Ok.. so update... I ran into him last night. He told me that we are through and the best thing for me is to not see him or talk to him basically ZERO contact.

But what I don't understand is that he stood there and told me how lonely he was and that he has no friends and that the closest friend that he has is 150 miles away. NOW WHY WOULD HE WANT TO PUSH ME OUT>>????

Obviously he hasn't realized how much I did for him in the first place. He even stood there and called himself an asshole in front of me and even asked me why I would want to be with an asshole like him also he called himself a rock and all this stuff etc... I told him because I've seen the other side to him that noone else has seen.

It hurts so badly because I want to be there for him and I want him to be there for me. He IS my neighbor at my apartment and this is just so bad. I don't know what to do. I'm crazy about the boy and I love him with all of my heart and sole.

He did say a lot of things that didn't make sense and one of them was.. sometimes you have to do something that you don't understand to get the result that you would understand and it'll eventually click.

Also he keeps telling me to move on.

Why can't he just give me the chance to show him that I truly do care about him?

I texted this to him this morning,

"Please find and see it in your heart to let me show you that I truly care about you. I know you can be an ass at times but that dont matter because I love you regardless."

He hasn't said anything back.

I just want to let all of you guys know that I love him more than anything and I would do ANYTHING to get him back. But he can't seem to realize all the things I did for him and how much I was truly there for him. I don't think he'll ever see it I dont know. But I wish he would so badly.

I would give up ANYTHING in the world for him to see how good he was treated. I would do ANYTHING for that boy too.

I just don't understand. I love him to death and I saw it in his eyes that he does miss me. I'm not stupid ya know? So why does he want me to move on and everything if I know deep down in my heart that he misses me and wants me back but he's too stubborn to tell me.

I LOVE HIM WITH ALL OF MY HEART AND SOLE AND I CANT BEAR TO SEE ALL THIS JUST BLOW UP IN MY FACE AFTER EVERYTHING I DID FOR HIM.

WHY CANT HE JUST GIVE ME THAT CHANCE???

WHEN WILL HE REALIZE THAT WHAT HE HAD WAS GREAT AND ALWAYS THERE FOR HIM>??? I'm afraid it'll be too late once he does realize it.

PLEASE ANY ADVICE WOULD HELP!!!!!!!! I WANT HIM BACK AND I'M OUT OF IDEAS!

Seems like evryone has already given you advise...now take advise from me becaue I just recently went through something similar. He will say he still cares but doesn't make a move to do anything about it. The guy I was with I found out was very insecure because of the way other girls treated him and really liked me but was afraid I was going to hurt him. He ws the same way, telling me one minute he needed me and the next minute I was too good for him. I finally realized that it wasn't worth our relationship being one sided and me "giving" on the time. So I told him I was moving on because I could not wait any longer for him to decide what he wants. I ahven't seen him on a month and come Monday we will both be back on campus and I want to avoid him because I know when I see him that I will have a "melt down" and my feelings will come back. Go to my story "Bf had another girl all along" and tell me what you would do. I still love him to death too but I can't keep putting my heart back together..hurts too much!

Dawn, I must Tell you sweetheart To Move ON I know that is hard to hear and you are really hoping this relationship works out Ive been there. But in all honesty Everything does Happen for a Reason and maybe God brought you two back together so you could learn a life lesson this currant break should only be more proof to you that you truly werent meant for each other. Him telling you maybe theres a chance down the road is just his way of trying to break it to you easy so you dont totally flip out. He doesnt sound interested at all. And with you texting pleas it only makes you look desperate and clingy two things guys hate and that totally scare them off. I know you are hurting now but God may have ended this relationship because you are about to meet someone truly amazing that will cherish you as much as you cherish them because thats what you deserve. Also seeing as you live in the same complex as him try just going on with your life dont let him see how hurt you are if you do pass him say hello seem to be happy like the breakup was a great idea like you dont need him have fun let him see you walking to your apartment with friends and having fun. Dont let this guy stop your world and chances are he will notice this change in you and find it attractive and hopefully by then it will be to late. I was with my Ex for 10 years and I loved him to death and he always treated me like crap well when we finally broke up and i actually moved on and no longer needed him he tried to come crawling back but no such luck i had already moved on and I couldnt be happier. Bottom line YOU WILL BE HAPPY AGAIN AND YOU MIGHT EVEN END UP HAPPIER THAN YOU EVER DREAMED POSSIBLE AND WONDER WHY YOU WERE SO STUCK ON THIS LOSER WHO NEVER APPRECIATED YOU GOD IS WORKING IN YOUR LIFE JUST TRUST IN HIM

Ok you guys heres an update and I need advice. So my ex started "talken" to me again. So he first called me yesterday evening, Jan. 23, and I didn't answer. Then I texted him, "What do you want?" He then responded with "Nothin dialed wrong number....sorry" Then I responded with "RIIIIght!"

Then I said, "I'm not stupid bitch I know you meant to call me dont play that shit with me."

THen he said, "LANGUAGE!!!! geez"

Then I said trying to be funny, "Ok dad"

Then he said, "W E" meaning whatever..

Well I left it at that then he decides to call me and leave me a voicemail saying I really hope you get this and I can't explain this and I dont know why but I have a feeling and I want you to be careful whatever you do tonight or for the rest of this week. I don't know but I have a bad feeling and I want you to know that you can't trust people please be careful all this stuff like he cares.. but he doesn't actually say it. Well then he called again and again after this message and I finally answered and he basically kept telling me everything that he said in the voicemail. Well then I went out last night or whatever and had fun.

Well today while I was at work I texted him, "Just tell me the truth." ANd then he said, "You can't handle the truth." and then I said, "How do you figure? Is it really that complicated? TRY ME!"

THen he said, "Yes.....cuz.....yes.... no...."

THen I sent him, "Ok smart ass look just tell me everything it will make both of our lives LESS complicated."

He hasn't said anything back. So I think honestly he's playing mind games or something.. I don't know.. It seems to me that he is starting to realize that he misses me but isn't going to say it.

I dont know what to think of him.. Any thoughts???

You guys I need your help with this one because I don't know what he's trying to pull or what his intentions are....

PLEASE HELP!! THANKS!!!

All of us have given you the same advice but I think you are one of the girls who REALLY LOVES DRAMA so we can't stop you. I know plenty of girls like you who just like all the wow and craziness of relationships going astray. It keeps your life interesting... I get it. I hope you enjoy the next chapter with what craziness and pain this guy will give you.

NO! It's not like that. I despise drama. Why do you think that in the first place? I'm just trying to find out WHY he's talken to me again... ITS NOT GOING ANYWHERES... SO WHY??

Is there something he's NOT telling me or what...

Sorry but things like this just don't happen to people..

Please any advice.. I feel lost

If you don't want the drama, you wouldn't care WHY. All that guy is is drama. If you want guys like that, I can introduce to some guys I know because they do the same crap to girls(I'm not part of that) that you are describing and you don't even realize because you are so attached to him. But some guys like the chase because it's exciting and girls like it too. Just let it go. LET IT GO LET IT GO LET IT GO! Repeat after me... LET IT GO. It doesn't matter what the answer is from him. He's got you hooked line and sinker... so you need to be released.. that's your answer.

Man,you sound just like I did 4months ago,when my ex bf of 3yrs. broke up w/ me. I'm not saying it was easy for me or that it will be easy for you,but our time apart really did make me realize how much of an ass he was and how much crap he put me through. Through this I've learned that sometimes in life people will hurt you and never be sorry,then there is the exception that they might be. I know that the advice on here sounds cliche,but I really think you should move on. The question isn't why you love him,it should be why do I love someone who wold treat me like this and play mind games w/ me. Love shouldn't be a game or a mystery. And besides if he misses you so deeply,then he wouldn't have been so stupid to let you go in the 1st place,b/c he would have known how hard it would be to be without you. Just focus on yourself and give it some time. As the saying goes,time heals all wounds. He's just playing w/ your mind b/c he knows he can and b/c you let him. Chances are when he ignores you he's probably seeing someone,but wants you to be hs backburner girl in case things don't work out w/ anyone else then he comes back to you,which is an insult b/c who wants to be someone's second best. If he can't treat you like a queen and be his one and only,then you deserve better anyway. I hope this advice helps and gives you a diff. insight on things,take it from me been there done that....

cn2579 is completely right. i went through the same thing and relized all of those things as well. there are so many other peope out there that will apretiate you and you will never have to play games with. forget this guy and find one of those

ok you guys...

I appreciate all of the advice and I think he's full of fucking shit.


The latest is this


He told me and I QUOTE, "I guess I'm not listening to my heart right now because my heart tells me that I want you back, but I'm doing what is needed to be done right now."

WHAT THE FUCK DOES THAT MEAN??

Here's responses... FULL OF SHIT.. LYING.. COP OUT ANSWER!!!!!!!! Wanting his cake and eating it too..;

Please any advice would help..

If this statement at all was true, then he would want me back and not some bullshit game.

Please HELP!!! I WANT OTHERS OPINIONS!!

dawn, you know what your issue is. You don't LISTEN. Maybe the problem isn't him. Look at yourself. You're continuing the drama. You don't even realize this sec. You've turned into one of those girls.

I just wanted to let everyone know that I'm done with my ex and this case is closed. I just know in my heart that one day he will realize what he had and how great it would have been and what an ass he is but I will say that when and if it does happen IT'S TOOOO LATE NOW. He has put me through enough and see him for what he is now.

I have met a new guy and I'm in a relationship with him now. He treats me like a queen, even though I don't understand how he can because frankly i've never been treated like a queen before. He is a very sweet guy and I'm going to let God decide this one for me.

Thanks everyone for your advice! I appreciate it and quite frankly I just know deep down in my heart that my ex boyfriend will regret everything sooner than later.

Dawn...can I just give you my opinion. I hope you try it out. I know it will be really hard for you as you are so mad into him and stuff. BUT try...I want you to forget him...or at least try to...he doesn't exist..poof..cos that is what he is doing to you. YOU need to reject him in the way he has rejected you. He dumped on you..You keep giving him these chances cos you carry a torch for him..fine..BUT its not helping you feel any better. Its hurting you, right?? I want you to cut ALL contact, phone email IM, facebook..whatever..nada..go AWOL on the communication front..make it so damn hard for him to contact you...trust me he will once he gets curious..When he does..be busy...don't always be so available. He must never ever know you are fully his. I think he left you when he thought you were his so to speak.. You gotta look like you have moved on and date others if necessary if it puts your mind off him..don't do anything until you feel ready...the best way is to not care. I dont know why that works. It just does...let me know the update hun..all the best..try it..OK..play hard to get NOW....for your sake..cos you want the guy back after all..and by giving him a challenge of getting through to you will make you more attractive to him...love Babs...

The same advice applied to the new guy btw. You are still in the honeymoon phase of that relationship...bare it in mind..after 6 months have passed you only start to get to know the REAL person...so dont tell too much about yourself..and dont make him ever know you are his..even if he is all lovey dovey...gotta keep him on his toes..OKAY HUN..Babs

WHO CARES! DO U REALLY THINK HE THOUGHT I WAS THE ONE AND THEN JUST LEFT? THAT'S STUPID.. NO OFFENSE BUT WHY WOULD ANYOEN DO THAT?.. SORRY FOR THE ALL CAPS.. MY COMPUTER IS MESSED UP AND WONT TURN OFF OF THIS. LOL BUT REALLY WHY WOULD ANYONE DO THAT?.. PLEASE EXPLAIN!! THANKS FOR THE ADVICE BUT IM HAPPY NOW AND THAT'S ALL THAT MATTERS RIGHT?

THANKS!

Well I'm happy to hear the good news,esp. after you told us the crap he put you through. Your on the right path and just focus on being happy w/ this new guy. I told you someone better would come along. As the old saying goes,"Everything happens for a reason". Sometimes things fall apart,for better things to fall together~cn2579

OK... SO NOW.. I have a twist for everyone and now I need your help! Me and my boyfriend the one I was very happy with well we just broke up recently. First let me start off by saying that I felt like I was putting more effort than him; not to mention it was a long distance relationship with a 2 hour drive. We rarely fought but it all started 3 weeks ago. I went to go see him and he didn't want to go out with me. As soon as I left the day after that night that he didn't want to go out with me; he calls me up and says im going to my best friend Garrett's house. Well then he calls me at like 8pm and tells me goodnight and that he will talk to me tomorrow; meaning the next day. I was confused by this behavior. Not to mention he told me that he was only hanging out with his 2 best friends and plus 3 girls that he was good friends with. Well the next day I find out that there were 4 girls; but he wasn't going to tell me about the 4th girl until I brought it up to him. He apologized and crap for not telling me but not to mention also that day "the 4th girl" was magically added on his facebook as friends. So then after that he started staying the night at his best friend Garrett's house more often. He didn't even make an effort to come see me. Well the week before thanksgiving I went to church and Im catholic so I went to confession. My penance was to pray to St. Anne. For anyone who doesn't know she is the patron Saint for a woman seeking a husband. Well every night that I have prayed to her since; I have dreamed about my ex boyfriend the first guy I had told all of you about. Well when my boyfriend at the time didn't show up at my parent's house for Thanksgiving and blew me off for a Dallas Cowboys game in which he supposively went with "his mom" too... well I knew then it was over. The next day he said we needed to talk and then told me that he had been thinking about marriage for the last couple weeks and said he didnt know if he could see himself marrying me. So then he said we needed to take a break. God prepared me for this I just know but here's my twist to this all.

My EX BOyfriend; the first guy I have told all of you about etc texted me recently and has been texting me. He has a girlfriend right now; but it still doesn't seem to stop him from texting me... He told me that he has gotten closer to God, goes to church, and all of this other stuff that I had prayed for to God like a year ago about. He told me about what he has done since we broke up and with how many girls and etc. But says he wants to see me again etc.

Now.. my question to you guys is.. do you think he could have always been the one for me and that he had to go through a lot of stuff and experiences and changes to become the man for me? I feel that if he pursues me to try things over from a fresh new start... I may give him the time of day. The reason I say this is because what if he has truly changed and God helped him because of my prayers to God? The only way I would find out is to see for myself right?

Please help me.. I dont know what is going on and Im so confused... PLEASE HELP!!!

O another thing... DO YOU THINK MY EX BOYFRIEND.. the guy I just got broken up with was cheating on me with the 4th girl from the night he went out? I do...

Not to mention, he was very mean to me the last couple days before he told me we needed to take a break and I haven't heard from him since.

ITS LIKE HE HAS NEVER EVEN MET ME!

How can someone do that? I just don't understand..

Also.. what I really don't understand is that he met my dad's WHOLE side of the FAMILY in Pennsylvania and he went up there TWICE within 3 months...

How can someone say that love someone and then just drop them like a penny on the street?

I just don't understand why this happened... but with everything taking place with my OTHER EX BOYFRIEND.. maybe it's a sign from God.

Still please I need everyone's help!

Thanks so much!!!!!!!!

I gotta add ONE MORE THING to this...

THIS IS THE FIRST TIME I HAVE SPOKEN TO MY EX BOYFRIEND IN ABOUT A YEAR! THIS IS THE ONE THAT I HAVE TOLD YOU GUYS ALL THE STORIES ABOUT.. NOT THE ONE THAT I RECENTLY WAS BROKEN UP WITH..

SO.. IT'S LIKE SO CRAZY AND WEIRD!

I NEED AS MUCH OF ADVICE AS POSSIBLE!

SO I JUST FOUND OUT THAT MY EX THE ONE THAT JUST BROKE UP WITH ME A COUPLE DAYS AGO IS FULL OF SHITT. OUR WHOLE RELATIONSHIP WAS A LIE! HE IS TALKEN TO ALL THESE GIRLS AND HIS WHOLE "WE NEED TO TAKE A BREAK THING" WAS THE BIGGEST LIE IN THE BOOK! WHAT A FUCKING JERK.. I EVEN MESSAGED SOME GIRL HE WAS CALLING BABY TOO.. AND TOLD HER STRAIGHT UP WHAT THE DEAL WAS AND THAT HE WAS FULL OF SHIT AND TO NOT WAIST HER TIME. WELL SORRY U GUYS... I HAD TO GET THAT OFF OF MY CHEST> NOT TO MENTION I MESSAGED HIS ASS AND TEXTED HIM THAT HE'S A FUCKING LIAR.. ETC! HE IS SO PATHETIC TOO! WELL ANYWHOS.. I FEEL SOO MUCH BETTER NOW KNOWING THAT EVERYTHING WAS A LIE AND THAT I CAN MOVE ON WITH MY LIFE. I JUST HOPE GOD PUTS A TWIST IN HIS LIFE THAT CAN HURT HIM FOR A LONG TIME DEEP INSIDE> THAT SHOULD FIX HIM!

HOPE ALL IS WELL... MY OTHER EX THE ORIGINAL EX IS STILL TEXTING ME THOUGH! 8) THATS KINDA GOOD I GUESS!

STOP,STOP,and THINK !!!
I think instead of putting hope in your ex before this ex is a mistake. He got out of a relationship w/ someone else as you've already said. He may have changed(which I doubt),but when I look at the past actions that you put up,it sounds like to me that he's feeling sorry for himself b/c he maybe alone and he knows he can always come running back to you. After how he treated you and this last ex,I wouldn't give either of them the time of day. I think your letting your emotions or the hopes of you getting back together cloud your judgement. Instead of praying for him back,I think you should pray and ask why you keep attracting such jerks and pray for a good man. if you take him back you setting yourself up for failure again and will go through an endless cycle of break-up to make up.You really need to look at what draws these type of unavailable,selfish guys in your life. I think you should take care of you first before you ask for a guy. Leave both these jerks alone!