if i started seeing my ex bf after a couple years , and we h...

if i started seeing my ex bf after a couple years , and we have been seeing each other on and off since our breakup, and he tells me when we see eahc other we should have never been aprt in the firts place, but only calls me every couple of weeeks, tos ee each other,,,if i call him he doesnt return my callls ...what does this allmena,,,doe she still care, or am a convencienc eot him when he want s to see me...help confused

my advice would be to sit down and talk to him. ask him how he feels and go from there. if he isn't too willing to get back together then you shouldn't pour your heart out to him. however if he starts to get serious about things then maybe you can let him know how you feel and see where it goes from there.

thanks i ll try that , good advice,,,i tryed calling him , he ahsnt returned my call, should i try again , or just leave it in order to have this converatin..Notsure , or should i wait until he calls me again,.,I am relaly upset over this ..he was here a couple of nite sago, and i did speak with im afte rthat, as i calle dhim, he thanked me for calling, and when we hung up he told me BEST TO YOU!!! hmm, not sur ewhat that meant any advice?????di it or could it have meant he didnt want to se eme anymore, when he was her e he kpet telling me we shoulldnt have ever broekn up, and i will tell you at that point i didnt giv ehim my true feelings , i told him we had had our time together ,a nd that it was good the way it was, thast not exactly how i awas feeling , but in fear of getting hurt all aover agin, i gave him that reaction was i wrong>????? pls. help in any wya thanks for replying

dood he his using you. cut him off now...you are clearly a very sweet person and have amazing faith in him to be even asking this question...but i assure you, down the line it will all be clear.

STOP taking his phone calls

STOP having sex with him if you are (that's just a polite "if"

Return to your life as if none of this ever happened. Be very thankful that you dodged getting back together with such an a-hole. Ok, now final part...unless you are 300lbs or over 70...you will find someone who will treat you better than this...not maybe, not possibly, not, if i just go to the gym more...you. as you are. WILL find someone who loves you more than this person does. When you see your pretty self in the mirror, tell yourself this. Muhammed Ali did the same thing, except with boxing...this is boxing for relationships! Be strong, girl!!!

My Girl of 5years relationship left me.. It was an intense relation .. since we made love with one anothr..We got engaged and confirmed that as soon as we complete our studies we would get married.

As i reached my 3rd year of College (Medicine),..She started keepin distance wit me for no reason...And she was just finding new and new excuses 2 break up...Most of it were true actually—like
I was soooooo dam possisive,if she just talk even one single words to any boys in my pressence..
I won’t listen to her problems,,,like all lovers do taking things for granted...Which finally (Taadaaaa) leads to break ups..i wrote many email to her ,texted her,tried to call her,but dint work out..I use to cry and write all those emails to her.I was sooooo weak heart ...I use too cry every time i think of her.There was not even 1 single day that i haven’t cried.. i felt that my heart was shattered into pieces and 1 by 1 i was picking them up.. it was hell painful....
So i decided to go to her home and see her face to face and say things up.. I cut my fingers and wit full blood i wrote a letter ... i knew she wont understnd if i simply say things up.. thats why i decided to do something stupid like this...but the things went in the opposite direction.. I begged her not to do like this putting my diginity down on then floor...
she hated me more after that , coz she thot that i was a mad person..Coward coz i became soooo low infront of her ,just to get her back...
She completed her course(Bse Nursing) and went 2 another state,,,, and i went behind searching 4 her.. i didn’t have any no:..nothing.no address. i just had an idea that she was doing her Mse ....in that state(Bangalore- In India)
i was soo depressed coz when i go out of the hotels which i live in...it just reminded me of her.. it was like torturing me....Coz the main purpose of the me going to that city i not yet completed and i didn’t know where to start from...

And soon as i startd makin frnds thr ,,,, alot of girls started divertin ma mind ... I knew they were all trying to pacify me...
I couldn’t find her i was devastated,,,,,I wanted to suicide...

Then i went back to my home town, coz i left hope..
I felt suffocated thr in ma room.. ma mob,ipod, and computer are filled with her fotos..After 4-5days I took again a bus to Bangalore...in the bus i met a guy who knew my girl(He was sudying in her college).. i took my girl's mobile no: from him,,,U GUYS WONT BELIEVE ME ,, 4 next 3months i didn’t have guts 2 call in that number...
my hands would shiever..i thot that is was better if i give her time and not call her for some time..
I gave that mob no: to othr frnds of mine.. they called her and asked her 2 question "How is your life?"she replied casually And then they asked “ How is your Life Without Franklin” I cried when my friends asked these questions to her...she got stuck(i knew she was heart broken and she had plenty of love for me) .....They gav my mob no: 2 her ...i waited n waitd .. then atlast i got a call from her after 1 long week... She scolded me left n right... using bad words like hell on me saying not 2 disturb her anymore.. I request n begged her to meet me..She said that she wud meet me but that wud be the last ..She wanted 2 throw a last drama wit my love...I Boldly replied “okay,no probZ”..
That time i realized that my love for her was turning into angerness ...
I went 2 the auditoriun where she had her college annual functions,,,,She said me to come there...My heart was just pounding in my hand.. it was sooo sooooo soooooo long since i have seen her face to face..

I couldnt find her out there also,At last i saw her on stage, she was going 2 perform “”I ‘m gonna be aroung”” from Mltr Album(Believe me just download this song from youtube-guys-When you feel left alone..)okay back to my life—Then in front of 1000s of peaple she called my name...
She got in her knees and asked me sorry.... (it really seems like a movie story)but guys i promise it’s my life..
She asked me whether i am changed.. to which i replied “ Yes i m”...

She needed tym for herself n i was happy that i kept some distance with her...

oh yes After that,She came n hugged me n gave me a direct m2m.... i was ... shockd , i didn’t have even any sound comin out of my mouth..
This is ma life...
MY GIRL'S NAME IS "Malie"----Acordin 2 me--It is
"Ma Li'f'e "