i'm 25 and she's 35. we were together for a bit over 10 months. i started a local police academy at the end of june. so my free time was limited since i have school 6 days a week. i saw her as much as i could. i spent the night at least every weekend. well, a little bit over a week ago, we broke up. she stated several reasons for it and it hit me by surprise. now i wanna get her back. she did say that she didn't see a future with us, the world revolved around me and i only saw her when it was convienent for me, and i didn't get a long with her brother(which him and i just needed to have a talk with him, man to man). well a few days after we broke up, i wrote her a letter explaining the reasons for the break up and solutions to the problems. well, the day after she sent me a text telling me to move on, stop making this harder for yourself. i can't give up on her. how much time should i give her before i try again? what can i do to win her back? i need advice from everyone on this, especially women around her age. please help!!!!!! i am lost without her. i will also admit i've tried texting her a few times and she just said leave her alone and that she was aggravated with me. are those replys to the texts, anger b/c we just broke up? how long will it take her to calm down?
